I can understand how you would think that still being a virgin at 31 is a handicap. If your main concern is to have sex, there are lots of forum on the internet about virgins. There are also many adult friends sites where you could meet people just for sex. Of course, you need to be careful when you meet people in real life. There are also sites for men who are looking for larger women. That being said, that would only take care of your sexual problem. Don%%u2019t expect to meet someone for a serious and meaningful relationship. I was a late bloomer and had sex for the first time in my 20s. I know how you feel.
But it seems to me that there%%u2019s a lot of things in your life that cause you pain. You say you%%u2019re lazy and that you live on social security. You also say you weigh 290 pounds. My question is, are you happy with this? If you are, then by all means go on living your life the way you see fit. But if you%%u2019re not happy, maybe now is a good time to turn things around. It%%u2019s not easy to lose weight when you don%%u2019t ever have to leave the house to go to work. Are you depressed in any ways? Have you always been like that? Do you have many friends? Do you read or keep yourself informed?
In the end, I believe that to be attractive, you need to feel good in your own skin, regardless of your weight or working situation. But, if to achieve that you need to look for a job, then do it.
i am 31 years old and still a virgin- is this normal?
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I can understand how you would think that still being a virgin at 31 is a handicap. If your main concern is to have sex, there are lots of forum on the internet about virgins. There are also many adult friends sites where you could meet people just for sex. Of course, you need to be careful when you meet people in real life. There are also sites for men who are looking for larger women. That being said, that would only take care of your sexual problem. Don%%u2019t expect to meet someone for a serious and meaningful relationship. I was a late bloomer and had sex for the first time in my 20s. I know how you feel.
But it seems to me that there%%u2019s a lot of things in your life that cause you pain. You say you%%u2019re lazy and that you live on social security. You also say you weigh 290 pounds. My question is, are you happy with this? If you are, then by all means go on living your life the way you see fit. But if you%%u2019re not happy, maybe now is a good time to turn things around. It%%u2019s not easy to lose weight when you don%%u2019t ever have to leave the house to go to work. Are you depressed in any ways? Have you always been like that? Do you have many friends? Do you read or keep yourself informed?
In the end, I believe that to be attractive, you need to feel good in your own skin, regardless of your weight or working situation. But, if to achieve that you need to look for a job, then do it.