I am 30 , she is 19

i totally understand you, i dated an older quy and still am, which is what any qirl would want because an older quy knows best with anythinq, you know. you should take the chance by telling her how you feel, and the other guy that is given her attention is probably just some jerk that wants nothing more with her but u kno, if u really care about her show her u do at least try u know, and i really dont think the age matters ... u can learn things from eachother , and as long as u give her space like dont let her miss out on her 20-25 age let her go out and experience things but that also means u are going to have to trust her ... u can also make it a group thing go out with her and her friends, but i would deff tell her !!