Please don't say that you suck. Many girls have challenges when it comes to orgasms! Some have never even masturbated and never had orgasms during sex. Sad to say that I've had women tell me "I didn't even know I was supposed to orgasm during sex! I thought it was all for the man's pleasure."
Others even take pride in their unwillingness or inability to cum. Sometimes it's referred to as being "new in box".
And then certainly there are orgasm denial/chastity kinks.
But it sounds like you're saying that you can orgasm, you just don't during sex. As others have mentioned, that isn't terribly uncommon for women in quick, basic intercourse with a man. Perhaps you need clitoral stimulation. Perhaps you need to discover your kinks and indulge in something that becomes a huge turn on for you. Perhaps it would be easier with someone else, or in a threesome. Perhaps you need foreplay to really get to the point where you're ready to enjoy sex.
But don't feel that you suck. Any problem you've had, countless other people have had. It's something to learn from and work on, that's all, and you can't be blamed. Think about it and try some new things. Explore your body and your interests.
I’m so upset I can’t cum
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Please don't say that you suck. Many girls have challenges when it comes to orgasms! Some have never even masturbated and never had orgasms during sex. Sad to say that I've had women tell me "I didn't even know I was supposed to orgasm during sex! I thought it was all for the man's pleasure."
Others even take pride in their unwillingness or inability to cum. Sometimes it's referred to as being "new in box".
And then certainly there are orgasm denial/chastity kinks.
But it sounds like you're saying that you can orgasm, you just don't during sex. As others have mentioned, that isn't terribly uncommon for women in quick, basic intercourse with a man. Perhaps you need clitoral stimulation. Perhaps you need to discover your kinks and indulge in something that becomes a huge turn on for you. Perhaps it would be easier with someone else, or in a threesome. Perhaps you need foreplay to really get to the point where you're ready to enjoy sex.
But don't feel that you suck. Any problem you've had, countless other people have had. It's something to learn from and work on, that's all, and you can't be blamed. Think about it and try some new things. Explore your body and your interests.