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So like I’m bi, I’ve known for a while (I’m 19, and a female) but I’m the oldest child and my sisters are extreme fuck ups, but that’s a diffrent story. Basically I’m the golden child and I know my mom is accepting because she dated a girl but I’m just scared it’s going to hurt our relationship or she’s going to look after me differently, I want to do it but I’m soooo scared too
| Just go with the flow | 11 | |
| Don’t tell her | 5 | |
| Tell her you wimp | 7 |
You aren't obligated to tell anyone anything you don't want to tell them, honey.
I understand what its like for you to be worried about telling her or being seen differently.
You shouldn't tell her until your ready, sometimes staying in the closet a little longer to prepare yourself can help. Don't do anything that will make you feel uncomfortable
Why should you tell her again? Do you have a girlfriend that you think you'll be with long term? It just seems pointless in my opinion to tell her. She probably wont even care.
If she dated a girl before then I don't see why you should be scared, she probably won't think anything of it. I'd say after you do tell her you'll ask yourself what the big deal was.
Tell her if she dosen't love you she will dissown you. But I bet she would and love you as you are