I’m nervous about seeing my older best friend after 5yrs

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I have this older best friend(she’s a retired teacher and in her 60’s by the way) the last time we saw and talked together was the 20h Of June 2013) and the last time I saw her was June 27th 2013, and it’s not cause we had a falling out or anything we just let each other go our different ways and meet new people and stuff like that, now after 5yrs I’m nervous about seeing her and talking her again cause she’s gonna be at this fair which I am also gonna be at next Friday and I’m nervous about it.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    If she truly is/was a good friend, the passage of time since you last saw her shouldn't make any difference.

    A couple of years ago, I saw a friend I hadn't seen for about twelve years, and only intermittently emailed over that time. We had some catching up to do, but we were totally comfortable with each other from the start.

    If you and your friend have more or less kept up to date with what's been going on each other's lives, that would make it even easier.

    Don't stress about it. If you can't help doing that and you were as close as you say, then you shouldn't feel shy about admitting that you were worried.

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  • Meowypowers
    5 years ago

    Well it is normal for a lot of people to get nervous over pretty much anything even if there's no logical reason to do so.

    If she really is such a close friend and you didn't have a falling out it will be like no time has passed, and just like it was the last time you were together. Try to be excited and happy about seeing her!

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