I’m dating a girl but i’m not attracted to girls

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So i met this girl in an online game. But I had no idea she was a girl til she finally told me (I had always ASSUMED she was a boy and i had never asked about it til i started liking her) she said she never told me because she thought she couldn't have me if she did. But it was to late I already liked her and still like her knowing that shes a girl so after she told me we made things officaL. But what i don’t understand is I’m not really attracted to girls. I’ve always dated guys and always found guys attractive and even now if i see an attractive girl i just think wow shes so pretty hopefully one day i can be like that not omg shes so pretty i wanna lick her p...y.(btw im a girl) so does anyone know what this means or am i just confused? I really do like her but I just find myself consistently thinking about this shit.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    3 years ago | pl

    That was very manipulative of her if you ask me. She tricked you into falling for her, all for her own gain, despite how upset/betrayed you'd feel. She purposely waited till you fell for her before telling you, so that it'd be too hard for you to break up with her at that point. I get that it must be hard for lesbians that most girls they'd want to be with are always straight, but that's no excuse for doing something like this. This relationship isn't going to last imo. Not only are you not attracted to girls but it was all founded on deceit.

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    • SkullsNRoses
      3 years ago

      ^ came to comment this.

      You’re uncomfortable for a reason OP, listen to those alarm bells and nope the fuck out of there.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Came back to say you was right, i still aint attracted to her. And we’re finally breakin up.

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      • JellyBeanBandit
        2 years ago

        I'm sorry, that must be hard. I do think it's best in the long run though. I know that's not much consolation right now but now you can meet someone better in the future and will be happy with them. It's better for her too, it'd suck being in a relationship with someone who isn't even attracted to you. I wish you both the best.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Thanks for responding and yeh i get what you mean. But its to late now the most ive been doing is talking to her about how i feel and shes been understanding about it and honestly right now we’re happy so im just gonna see where this goes.

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    • RoseIsabella
      3 years ago

      Yes!

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    Dont worry chances are nothing will happen between ya, what game you meet her in?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Rules of survival

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      • Mammal-lover
        3 years ago

        Oh that looks like a solid one

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    3 years ago

    Honestly don't worry so much. Just go with the flow and if you feel uncomfortable, stop

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Thanks and yeh im trying

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  • CDmale4fem
    3 years ago

    Above all else - BE HONEST WITH HER. Dont play games with her, its not fair.
    "Its better to be alone for the right reasons, than with someone for the wrong."

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      I am honest with her i really do like her

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      • CDmale4fem
        3 years ago

        You like her, but you are not attracted to her ? I enjoyed dating women in the past, but like you, i was not attracted to her. It didnt really last to long after i told her how i felt. But if you think not being attracted to her will affect how you feel about her in the future, have you told her how you feel ?

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  • --
    3 years ago

    Yall at the "sending nudes" stage yet?

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