I don't think the guy has anything to say about it unless he can carry the child to term. If she agrees to do that then opt out of the child's life, she may do so, however the father must be the single parent and not decide to quit later and try to pawn off the child.
I also don't think he deserves child support.
Child support is a right of the child, not 'him' or 'her' (dad or mom). If a child is born it deserves to be supported by the people who created it. The state also has the interest in support from the parents as the first line of responsibility, otherwise we all have to pay for it while the people directly responsible for it go free.
You can't sign off a third party's rights. You can't tell the child or the state that you won't pay, the child and the state and the taxpayers have an interest in you paying and it's far outside your rights to deny that.
If the mother doesn't want to bring the child to term, but does so because the father wants it, then the woman should have no responsibility for the child thereafter. She's just the surrogate womb, nothing more.
Your way forces the woman to have an abortion, with or without the father's consent. How does that make sense?
If that is indeed the law, it is forcing abortions and fathers are not going to have a say about it. Too bad daddy if mommy doesn't feel like spending 9 months carrying a baby for you. Nor should she be forced to or feel guilty for not doing it.
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I don't think the guy has anything to say about it unless he can carry the child to term. If she agrees to do that then opt out of the child's life, she may do so, however the father must be the single parent and not decide to quit later and try to pawn off the child.
I also don't think he deserves child support.
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Child support is a right of the child, not 'him' or 'her' (dad or mom). If a child is born it deserves to be supported by the people who created it. The state also has the interest in support from the parents as the first line of responsibility, otherwise we all have to pay for it while the people directly responsible for it go free.
You can't sign off a third party's rights. You can't tell the child or the state that you won't pay, the child and the state and the taxpayers have an interest in you paying and it's far outside your rights to deny that.
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If the mother doesn't want to bring the child to term, but does so because the father wants it, then the woman should have no responsibility for the child thereafter. She's just the surrogate womb, nothing more.
Your way forces the woman to have an abortion, with or without the father's consent. How does that make sense?
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No, it simply doesn't discriminate based on gender. Neither gender can sign off a third party's rights.
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If that is indeed the law, it is forcing abortions and fathers are not going to have a say about it. Too bad daddy if mommy doesn't feel like spending 9 months carrying a baby for you. Nor should she be forced to or feel guilty for not doing it.
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No, it means each parent is held to the same standard once a child is born.
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So now a surrogate womb is a parent? OK, just how does that work again?