Husband is physically controlling is it normal?

He has never hit me but he puts me in a chokehold and covers my mouth and nose with his hand so I can't breathe, when he loses his temper. I have blacked out before and woken up in the bed without my clothes on. I know I talk and argue too much and I know when he is starting to lose his temper but most of the time the argument doesn't get that carried away.

Is It Normal?
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  • And you stay because?

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  • Are you really going to be one of those women who says things like 'My husband threw me down the stairs but I know I deserved it; I burned his dinner.'

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  • I'd probably kick him in the junk when he was asleep then leave.

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  • Obviously he is being abusive.

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  • why just why do girls fall for these crappy guys. Im a nice person and would never hurt a girl physically or mentally and also im a good looking person with great personality with an MBA qualification with a great job. But girls would date looser like those without me.... :(

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  • That's a hella fucked up situation. It's also assault and rape. Why would you stay with such a person?

    One of these days he's going to smother you, but you won't wake up then he'll probably rape your corpse, dismember you and dispose of your body. Is that what you want? This guy belongs in jail, not your bed!

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  • If you know you do those things then stop doing it. Behave in a way that pleases him and you wont have to worry about this, OR pack your things and get the fuck out.

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