It's good to choose satisfying your hunger over your pride. :)
My fear with friendship is he'll think, "oh, she just wants to be friends." I'm already afraid he is battling the "does she, does she not?" He is a lot like me, though a lot different too. He wasn't a popular kid in school, then suddenly he was. Same with me. It's is a shock to your system, because you never loose that feeling of self doubt. We are both very contemplative, analytical people who can be very outgoing. I see him display body language contrary to his outward confidence. I see us mirroring each other in trying to figure this out. It's like we are both dipping our toes in the water, but neither of us want to jump in first.
I feel like he was going to ask me out one night, but I had just gotten back with my EX(to give him a second chance, which failed). He stopped in three times that night(at work), then he shows up as we lock the doors. My EX drove up. He didn't say anything, just stood awkwardly. My Coworker asked him questions, he had one word answers.
I wish he would stop in more like he did the first time I left my EX, but he has two jobs now. I know exactly what days he stops in though, and without fail he is there. But I'm at work. So I don't get a chance to indulge in conversation with him often. It would be so much easier if I saw him more. I could play stupid and wrangle some girls for a girls night all innocently and stop in when he's there... But it feels wrong... And stalkerish.
How would you react to courtship by song?
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It's good to choose satisfying your hunger over your pride. :)
My fear with friendship is he'll think, "oh, she just wants to be friends." I'm already afraid he is battling the "does she, does she not?" He is a lot like me, though a lot different too. He wasn't a popular kid in school, then suddenly he was. Same with me. It's is a shock to your system, because you never loose that feeling of self doubt. We are both very contemplative, analytical people who can be very outgoing. I see him display body language contrary to his outward confidence. I see us mirroring each other in trying to figure this out. It's like we are both dipping our toes in the water, but neither of us want to jump in first.
I feel like he was going to ask me out one night, but I had just gotten back with my EX(to give him a second chance, which failed). He stopped in three times that night(at work), then he shows up as we lock the doors. My EX drove up. He didn't say anything, just stood awkwardly. My Coworker asked him questions, he had one word answers.
I wish he would stop in more like he did the first time I left my EX, but he has two jobs now. I know exactly what days he stops in though, and without fail he is there. But I'm at work. So I don't get a chance to indulge in conversation with him often. It would be so much easier if I saw him more. I could play stupid and wrangle some girls for a girls night all innocently and stop in when he's there... But it feels wrong... And stalkerish.