I'm exactly like the second guy (the one at work). I hate it when people pay for my stuff and I'm generally who pays for whoever I'm with (guys or girls). That being said, when I was in college I was broke all the time and girls paid for a lot of stuff for me. I wouldn't feel bad then cause I'd be salivating like crazy LOL.
Anyway, I think that instead of 'asking him out' you might want to befriend him and see whether he'd like to go and do something fun, or just say that you're bored out of your mind and ask whether he'd go for a drink or the mall or something.
I'm kind of a sissy so I wait until I'm over 80% sure that the girl likes me before making any move at all. I've lost a couple of girls to more adventurous guys because of this though, so it really is your call and what you're comfortable with.
How would you react to courtship by song?
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I'm exactly like the second guy (the one at work). I hate it when people pay for my stuff and I'm generally who pays for whoever I'm with (guys or girls). That being said, when I was in college I was broke all the time and girls paid for a lot of stuff for me. I wouldn't feel bad then cause I'd be salivating like crazy LOL.
Anyway, I think that instead of 'asking him out' you might want to befriend him and see whether he'd like to go and do something fun, or just say that you're bored out of your mind and ask whether he'd go for a drink or the mall or something.
I'm kind of a sissy so I wait until I'm over 80% sure that the girl likes me before making any move at all. I've lost a couple of girls to more adventurous guys because of this though, so it really is your call and what you're comfortable with.