I only see him at my work, and infrequently due to his work schedule. Also, I have no experience with real dating.
My EX and I went to movies as friends, then when we hung out at his place until our relationship went further. I only know that dates are often restaurants or movies. I know guys often pay for these thing, which would make me very uncomfortable. Me saying, "Lets go on a date!" is like saying "Spend money on me!"
If I sang the song, it could be romantic. It's a unique way of revealing I like him. Then it'll be up to him to ask me out if he likes me, too.
I have about zero experience with this stuff. I just want to know what people think of the idea. Based on that, I may or may not do it.
Correction, we went on dates after we lived together. But I paid for myself most of the time. At that point it was more of a couples night than a date. He only paid for both our dinners when he started making more money. But I always offer to pay for myself. About 80% of the time he would let me.
This other guy has bought me lunch at work(when we worked together) a couple times. When I tried to give him money he regarded it like a bad joke. On a few occasions I offered to buy him food when he had no money. I would bring up that I owe him and he dismissed it. He may have even sounded upset, saying that I don't owe him anything.
I'm exactly like the second guy (the one at work). I hate it when people pay for my stuff and I'm generally who pays for whoever I'm with (guys or girls). That being said, when I was in college I was broke all the time and girls paid for a lot of stuff for me. I wouldn't feel bad then cause I'd be salivating like crazy LOL.
Anyway, I think that instead of 'asking him out' you might want to befriend him and see whether he'd like to go and do something fun, or just say that you're bored out of your mind and ask whether he'd go for a drink or the mall or something.
I'm kind of a sissy so I wait until I'm over 80% sure that the girl likes me before making any move at all. I've lost a couple of girls to more adventurous guys because of this though, so it really is your call and what you're comfortable with.
How would you react to courtship by song?
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Why don't you ask him out and after a couple of dates or something perform for him somwhere in private
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I only see him at my work, and infrequently due to his work schedule. Also, I have no experience with real dating.
My EX and I went to movies as friends, then when we hung out at his place until our relationship went further. I only know that dates are often restaurants or movies. I know guys often pay for these thing, which would make me very uncomfortable. Me saying, "Lets go on a date!" is like saying "Spend money on me!"
If I sang the song, it could be romantic. It's a unique way of revealing I like him. Then it'll be up to him to ask me out if he likes me, too.
I have about zero experience with this stuff. I just want to know what people think of the idea. Based on that, I may or may not do it.
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Correction, we went on dates after we lived together. But I paid for myself most of the time. At that point it was more of a couples night than a date. He only paid for both our dinners when he started making more money. But I always offer to pay for myself. About 80% of the time he would let me.
This other guy has bought me lunch at work(when we worked together) a couple times. When I tried to give him money he regarded it like a bad joke. On a few occasions I offered to buy him food when he had no money. I would bring up that I owe him and he dismissed it. He may have even sounded upset, saying that I don't owe him anything.
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I'm exactly like the second guy (the one at work). I hate it when people pay for my stuff and I'm generally who pays for whoever I'm with (guys or girls). That being said, when I was in college I was broke all the time and girls paid for a lot of stuff for me. I wouldn't feel bad then cause I'd be salivating like crazy LOL.
Anyway, I think that instead of 'asking him out' you might want to befriend him and see whether he'd like to go and do something fun, or just say that you're bored out of your mind and ask whether he'd go for a drink or the mall or something.
I'm kind of a sissy so I wait until I'm over 80% sure that the girl likes me before making any move at all. I've lost a couple of girls to more adventurous guys because of this though, so it really is your call and what you're comfortable with.