I'm fairly sure a guy that I was with for a short time was gay. Either that or he had some major sexual issue, like a major deviation....I broke it off with him and I ended up being angry about it just because I felt "used". I felt he's gotta know what's going on inside his head or any uncertainty he had, he had a responsibility to tell me and he didn't say a thing!! If someone's gay then I have NO issue with it whatsoever, it was the waste of time and the dishonesty that angered me. Don't USE me as your experiment or as a front for your parents or whatever the reason!! That's not right.
Maybe he didn't know he was gay (or was trying not to admit it). Give the guy a break. Just because he wasn't necassarily straight doesn't mean that he was "using" you, or that he was trying to be dishonest.
This is interesting and has nothing to do with the topic. I just realized that even if someone posts a rebuttal to someone's post, like you have, it doesn't necessarily mean that "people" are going to agree with the person with the last word. I agree with wigsplitz, oddly enough, and no "chances" would be given to someone who has deceived me. If the guy were not certain of his feelings, he should have told the OP much, much sooner.
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I'm fairly sure a guy that I was with for a short time was gay. Either that or he had some major sexual issue, like a major deviation....I broke it off with him and I ended up being angry about it just because I felt "used". I felt he's gotta know what's going on inside his head or any uncertainty he had, he had a responsibility to tell me and he didn't say a thing!! If someone's gay then I have NO issue with it whatsoever, it was the waste of time and the dishonesty that angered me. Don't USE me as your experiment or as a front for your parents or whatever the reason!! That's not right.
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Maybe he didn't know he was gay (or was trying not to admit it). Give the guy a break. Just because he wasn't necassarily straight doesn't mean that he was "using" you, or that he was trying to be dishonest.
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This is interesting and has nothing to do with the topic. I just realized that even if someone posts a rebuttal to someone's post, like you have, it doesn't necessarily mean that "people" are going to agree with the person with the last word. I agree with wigsplitz, oddly enough, and no "chances" would be given to someone who has deceived me. If the guy were not certain of his feelings, he should have told the OP much, much sooner.