It seems (to me) that an open casket is to give some people relief. Relief that yes, this was that person, just as I've remembered them and always will. Since some of the cadavers used to be sick, a lot of people ignored them during their last periods. Scared to face how withered they've become. Even as far as to say they aren't that someone they knew. But that period is something that shouldn't be avoided in memories of the cadavers because it shows you how hard they've tried. I'm not sure if that makes sense.
Of course - those that request it must have a reason for it. They must want to see the dead body of their loved one and have their family and friends see it too. I totally respect that decision, even if I personally would not make it.
It's just something I find strange and undignified. But that's probably because it's not so much a part of my culture. I wouldn't find any comfort in seeing the dead body of a loved one.
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It seems (to me) that an open casket is to give some people relief. Relief that yes, this was that person, just as I've remembered them and always will. Since some of the cadavers used to be sick, a lot of people ignored them during their last periods. Scared to face how withered they've become. Even as far as to say they aren't that someone they knew. But that period is something that shouldn't be avoided in memories of the cadavers because it shows you how hard they've tried. I'm not sure if that makes sense.
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Of course - those that request it must have a reason for it. They must want to see the dead body of their loved one and have their family and friends see it too. I totally respect that decision, even if I personally would not make it.
It's just something I find strange and undignified. But that's probably because it's not so much a part of my culture. I wouldn't find any comfort in seeing the dead body of a loved one.