How was that crap shallow!!

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Okay so lets start off by saying I started dating this girl right? Well she can be sexual but she just wants to wait to have sex until shes ready so being respectful I respected that because I like her for other reasons and not just to f**k her...

She is still a virgin so she never had sex so it is way easier for her to just not be sexual. Well I get horny and I'm just like "hey baby can you help me out here" I start messing around with her she'll play around with me sometimes and she'll just be like no I can't because I have to get up for work so I respect that okay well whatever. That has happened a few times....

Okay well last night I was getting kind of sick of her keep giving me blue balls so I tried to just mess around NOT SEX and she would finger herself and then just STOP so I was like no I'm sick of this I want a relationship with you but not if you can't even help me out when I'm horny you don't have to f**k me just maybe help me out! So I broke up with her...I tried talking about it with her before but it was like an oh okay I get it then but yeah now she is saying I'm shallow...Do you think so?

I'm 18 years old and so is she...I just want a little help out from my girlfriend why does that make me shallow?

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  • mtziongirl
    15 years ago

    Wow, she has alot of virtrue. =))
    get back together dont do it for a while
    and if your super horny go to the bathroom!

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  • emilyf
    15 years ago

    Yeah, kind of. You said you respect her? Obviously not. If she doesn't want to "help you out" then she doesn't have to.
    Although that situation must suck.

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  • MapleSyrup
    15 years ago

    Perhaps she wasn't comfortable "helping" you out or was unsure of exactly how. I for one dislike giving hand jobs and oral sex. It bores me. You should have tried a 69, thats not all that bad pleasure for pleasure.

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  • Jemima
    16 years ago

    anybody be lookin for dem pancakes?

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  • the_mad
    15 years ago

    There could not be a healthy loving relationship between two adults without regular sex.

    It looks like you put a lot of thought into the relationship because you waited for so long. The girl is not ready and it is not your fault.

    Most girls and guys look for different things at your age. Guys wanna sex and girls (in most part) want romance. And then the virgins - they think sex is such a big thing even though it is nothing, but a way to pleasure your partner and get some pleasure yourself. My advice, you find a nice girl who is not a virgin, she will be easier and you will have a fruitful relationship with her on the spiritual and the physical levels. Once you get in your 20s or even 30s things will become much easier. In most cases girls do not say "No" for long :-)

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    • roketlever
      15 years ago

      yeah i noticed a lot of what you said is true. i hate people.

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  • Crookshanks
    16 years ago

    I agree with comment above, your looking for different things, your not shallow.

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    It is obvious you tried to respect her and talk about the problem but you want different things so you were best to end it

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  • roadrunnerxo
    15 years ago

    Well you did the right thing with following your quick instincts to run when your not satisfied. im the same way sometimes. maybe she just wasnt the right person for you, maybe just not yet.

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