How to tell girlfriend that i don't like giving oral sex?

This has nothing to do with the quality of her hygiene. Even when she's recently washed and shaved I find that lingering thick sour smell to be nauseating and always lose composure when I'm forced into giving her oral sex. Usually I make up an excuse or shush her and jump into sex to avoid eating her and I really feel bad because she genuinely seems to enjoy it as much as sex. I know it'd be selfish to expect fellatio so I hardly ever ask for blow jobs but at the same time I really, really enjoy them. This is impeding on my ex life and I don't want to offend her or hurt her feelings but I hate putting my face anywhere near her groin. I'm seriously screwed right now and I want to come clean to her but I just don't know how. Can someone throw a suggestion at me?

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  • It's like Sushi, It seems gross at first but once you get use to it you'll love it.

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  • It is abnormal to hate cunnilingus.

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  • Try using lemon juice and melted butter and don't forget to wear your lobster bib.

    Sorry, that's the best advice I got for you other than just be honest with her.

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  • I dont like to put my face in there too, not because it tastes bad, actualy it doesnt taste anything at all, its just because i dont find my self confortable to do it, even if she is the one giving me. About the smell its normal :b , even if she washed it before it will still smell because of the vagina lubrification but again its no big deal since you can just breath from ur mouth, you dont really need to smell it..

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  • Just be blunt and say it. Even if it might hurt her feelings, it's still best to be honest about something that makes you feel uncomfortable.

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  • If she just washed it shouldn't be sour. If you don't like the taste and smell of fresh clean pussy, I have to question your sexuality.

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  • Next time you go down on her, stuff your nostrils with her pubes. You won't be able to smell and she's satisfied. Problem solved!

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  • Let me do it for you...problem solved! I been doing it since I was 8 years old. I found out by accident and just doing it..my first woman was when i was 14 she was 28 luckiest day of my life...If you really get in to doing it then you maybe make her cum...then lay back and let her do you...

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  • Different women taste different at different times. It's like wine tasting. Some Are sweet, some sour, some linger,some don't. I've heard that changing your diet can effect the taste of your vaginal secretions and semen. I'd quit being a fucking pussy though. Asking your gf to change her diet because YOU are too much of a girl to lick hers... It's kind of selfish. And it shouldn't smell any different than any other pussy. It all has the same general smell unless something is wrong or they just had their period. So get over it. Be glad a beautiful woman let's you do that to her or anywhere near her pussy and worship that shit for it lol.

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  • Time for her to move on to a new guy..

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  • Try flavored lube. It's so strong all you can smell is the flavor you picked out. Plus, she can use it on you too!

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  • I would insist that you should tell her!

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  • You will have to lose something to gain something.

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  • I've had the same problem. I don't particularly enjoy it either.

    But yeah, I've found that sucking on a mint or chewing gum then you can hardly notice it.

    That said it's certainly worth it to make partner feel good. And as you said, it's kind of an obligation to expect a return ;)

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  • eat miracle berries before you give oral, they make the vagina taste like the cheap lemon flavour they used to put in lollipops, I've been doing it for months now. enjoy :P or you could use nose plugs

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  • Have you done it a lot? Because it was hard for me at first but you get used to it quickly.

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  • Hmm, never had this problem & not sure how you can approach it without possibly offending her. Touchy subject!

    Have you had this problem with other girls?

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    • I've never had a serious relationship prior to the one I'm in now. With other girls they've never asked mostly because the've been one night stands and plus oral is a very affectionate thing to do to someone. Before I'd met her I always fantasized giving a girl oral but it's clearly not what I expected!

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      • So even in the heat of the moment you just can't stand it?
        You shouldn't be doing something you hate obviously but I don't know how you can bring it up that's all.
        Wonder if you could try flavoured lube or something?

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  • Is her pussy ugly ?

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  • Start blowing guys bcuz obviously you're gay

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