How to stop suspecting people hate me?

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I am quite insecure about myself, but I am able to feign enough confidence to mask it well, however I sometimes am sure that my friends just "bare me" and don't truly like me or that they are trying to avoid me, that my coworkers see me as an idiot, and the thoughts of disloyalness and that my partner hadn't truly loved me also plagued all of the relationships I had, to the point I don't want a relationship because I don't want those thoughts to come back. I know going to a psychologist or a psychiatrist is advised but I have neither the money for that nor the will to let my rights be removed or have the stigma that mentally ill people have. I am not really sure what I even want, this is just an anonymous vent.

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  • raisinbran
    1 year ago

    It's their problem. If they're wasting an hour being angry at you, or having negative thoughts about you, it's decreasing their quality of life. You should be happy about it.

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    • Ihidabody
      1 year ago

      It is really starting to appear that you people have truly lost touch with reality. Simply having a negative opinion on someone is not "decreasing your quality of life".

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      • raisinbran
        1 year ago

        'Hate' suggests intense negative emotions. I would say that affects a person's quality of life.

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        • Ihidabody
          1 year ago

          You can hate someone and still have a good quality of life. Hating someone doesn't have any affect on your life.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    Do you love yourself? You have to learn to love yourself.

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    • Large_Salad
      1 year ago

      I don't.

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      • RoseIsabella
        1 year ago

        Yeah, see loving yourself is very important. If you don't love yourself you won't understand why anyone else would like you. What are three things you like about yourself?

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    • bbrown95
      1 year ago

      Agreed. It's not an easy thing at all, but definitely the key to good self image, and self confidence.

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  • Tommythecaty
    1 year ago

    Iā€™m not the friend one needs, but the one they deserve bwahahahaha

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Whats wrong with being an idiot and people hating you? Ive had both problems my entire life its not so bad

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  • Ihidabody
    1 year ago

    They probably do, you never know.

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  • my_life_my_way
    1 year ago

    They do hate you, people are only out for themselves.

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    • 1WeirdGuy
      1 year ago

      Dude you seriously chose the perfect profession. Youll make a good lawyer.šŸ˜‚

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