You know I think that the people who might find your appearance intimidating would possibly still find you intimidating even if you tried to change your demeanor. It's hard for me to say without seeing, but I think Ellenna made some excellent suggestions.
You say it's important to you to be strong, and ripped, but just out of curiosity I'd like you know why?
Yeah I know there is only so much I can do. I'm just tryna limit the intimidation if possible, not get rid of it entirely.
As far as me wanting to be strong and ripped, it's really just a passion of mine that I took really far. I love being competitive in strength sports and I like looking a certain way naked. I also love pushing myself in the gym to just add another 5 pounds on the bar or whatever. I can't fully explain it tbh but damn its addicting.
I don't get shit everyone else does either rose don't worry bout it!
To answer your question, no. I don't talk about sex when I first meet women. I pursue them until its clear to me that they are attracted to me in some capacity and then I start hinting things towards sex. If sex is the first thing I bring up I think that would be a turn off.
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You know I think that the people who might find your appearance intimidating would possibly still find you intimidating even if you tried to change your demeanor. It's hard for me to say without seeing, but I think Ellenna made some excellent suggestions.
You say it's important to you to be strong, and ripped, but just out of curiosity I'd like you know why?
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Yeah I know there is only so much I can do. I'm just tryna limit the intimidation if possible, not get rid of it entirely.
As far as me wanting to be strong and ripped, it's really just a passion of mine that I took really far. I love being competitive in strength sports and I like looking a certain way naked. I also love pushing myself in the gym to just add another 5 pounds on the bar or whatever. I can't fully explain it tbh but damn its addicting.
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Fair enough. I guess I just don't get it.
Do you talk, and it joke about sex when you first meet women?
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I don't get shit everyone else does either rose don't worry bout it!
To answer your question, no. I don't talk about sex when I first meet women. I pursue them until its clear to me that they are attracted to me in some capacity and then I start hinting things towards sex. If sex is the first thing I bring up I think that would be a turn off.