How to stop intimidating women

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago | pl

    I avoid soy like its cyanide! Haven't touched weed, alcohol or any other drug unless steroids count.

    I don't actually know my T levels but considering how high my sex drive is and how muscular I am its prolly up there. I take 4 different T boosting supplements right now. Thanks for trying to help tho!

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    • GaelicPotato
      4 years ago | pl

      Lol. Steroids.

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago | pl

      Too much testosterone isn't necessarily a good thing. I understand that you want to be masculine, but it's possible that what you see as masculine might come off as looking brutish to other people, and women in particular.

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago | pl

        Yeah I care a ton about being strong and ripped. It's a huge part of who I am and I'm not willing to give that up to get laid more. However, your correct that it is off putting to some women. The question I intended to ask with this post is how to avoid being so intimidating. And I think there are solutions besides lower your testosterone.

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        • GaelicPotato
          4 years ago | pl

          It's artificial. You use steroids so it's not actually you.

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          • Doesnormalmatter
            4 years ago | pl

            I disagree. If that's what you think then where do you draw the line? If someone takes a protein powder which is artificial and that helps them look better naked, is that off limits? What if someone gets plastic surgery? Or an artificial heart valve? Or what if they need a certain artificial medication to stay alive? Their not really themselves! Their real self is dead!

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        • RoseIsabella
          4 years ago | pl

          You know I think that the people who might find your appearance intimidating would possibly still find you intimidating even if you tried to change your demeanor. It's hard for me to say without seeing, but I think Ellenna made some excellent suggestions.

          You say it's important to you to be strong, and ripped, but just out of curiosity I'd like you know why?

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          • Doesnormalmatter
            4 years ago | pl

            Yeah I know there is only so much I can do. I'm just tryna limit the intimidation if possible, not get rid of it entirely.

            As far as me wanting to be strong and ripped, it's really just a passion of mine that I took really far. I love being competitive in strength sports and I like looking a certain way naked. I also love pushing myself in the gym to just add another 5 pounds on the bar or whatever. I can't fully explain it tbh but damn its addicting.

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            • RoseIsabella
              4 years ago | pl

              Fair enough. I guess I just don't get it.

              Do you talk, and it joke about sex when you first meet women?

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              • Doesnormalmatter
                4 years ago | pl

                I don't get shit everyone else does either rose don't worry bout it!

                To answer your question, no. I don't talk about sex when I first meet women. I pursue them until its clear to me that they are attracted to me in some capacity and then I start hinting things towards sex. If sex is the first thing I bring up I think that would be a turn off.

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