If you're just looking for random hole to fuck, then understand that women love to laugh, you just need to discover what type of humor they have and you're in.
As an icebreaker, make fun of something obvious about yourself when you approach a woman, something we typically notice right away. For example, you're 6'4", that's tall as fuck and any woman would notice; make a funny about it, like how on earth did you fit through the door or something (of course come up with your own jokes cause mine are terrible).
Very important, you must chuckle a little at your own joke or at her jokes while giving her relaxed eye contact. Most women love a man's smile, it's like the sexiest thing ever to us lol; I'm not talking about the over the top busting a gut laugh, but a relaxed smile that shows some teeth.
Everything I mentioned takes practice. If you're not use to smiling, practice that shit. No jokes? Practice that shit.
I'm not just looking for a hole. I do have some discretion, albeit not a whole lot. Even though I have enjoyed casual sex in the past I am looking for a more committed typa deal this year if possible.
My family and friends always think I'm funny but around women I find it hard and awkward to try and be funny. But that all sounds like great advice and I'll try to smile and laugh more. Thanks for the reply!
"I'm not scary I'm just another guy tryna get laid who wants to make women happy and feel comfortable around me."
Then why be so misleading in your initial post? I understand you didn't meant to be so, but women like to know where things are going from the start. So before venturing out there, get it in your head of what your main objective is: To get laid, or to find a potential partner?
As for my advice, that was more so you can get sex. But since you want a girlfriend changes the rules around a bit. My advice for that is, meet people in places you two have in common. College classes, playing MMOs, clubs, etc; whatever you find enjoyment in, because that person will like it too and you two can break the ice by talking about it. It's very rare to meet a good partner in a bar or on Tinder, because the main goal in those situation is to have sex; which means you'll be harshly judged by your appearance and performance rather than the good person you are.
Really? That's kinda surprising based off how much I talk about sex, I figured you woulda figured out. Appearance isn't to relavant on iin so that's more understandable.
There are a few, just difficult to find. Well you don’t actually search, u just talk to those u wouldn’t normally talk to
Aren’t there also those girls that literally go with everybody?
Yeah there aren't many but I do know a few. I might check them out we'll see. And the girls that would literally go with anyone are usually who I end up with. You get what you get and you don't have a fit I guess.
If ur searching long term have someone that is a leader figure of a sports club or something, they don’t get intimidated so easily and are very forward. A strong figure doesn’t care as much about others opinions, so maybe she won’t care about ur habits, but still needs someone to care for her once in a while
But yeah try with the others too
I mean u also meet the best people when u stop searching for em and try something new in ur life
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If you're just looking for random hole to fuck, then understand that women love to laugh, you just need to discover what type of humor they have and you're in.
As an icebreaker, make fun of something obvious about yourself when you approach a woman, something we typically notice right away. For example, you're 6'4", that's tall as fuck and any woman would notice; make a funny about it, like how on earth did you fit through the door or something (of course come up with your own jokes cause mine are terrible).
Very important, you must chuckle a little at your own joke or at her jokes while giving her relaxed eye contact. Most women love a man's smile, it's like the sexiest thing ever to us lol; I'm not talking about the over the top busting a gut laugh, but a relaxed smile that shows some teeth.
Everything I mentioned takes practice. If you're not use to smiling, practice that shit. No jokes? Practice that shit.
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I'm not just looking for a hole. I do have some discretion, albeit not a whole lot. Even though I have enjoyed casual sex in the past I am looking for a more committed typa deal this year if possible.
My family and friends always think I'm funny but around women I find it hard and awkward to try and be funny. But that all sounds like great advice and I'll try to smile and laugh more. Thanks for the reply!
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"I'm not scary I'm just another guy tryna get laid who wants to make women happy and feel comfortable around me."
Then why be so misleading in your initial post? I understand you didn't meant to be so, but women like to know where things are going from the start. So before venturing out there, get it in your head of what your main objective is: To get laid, or to find a potential partner?
As for my advice, that was more so you can get sex. But since you want a girlfriend changes the rules around a bit. My advice for that is, meet people in places you two have in common. College classes, playing MMOs, clubs, etc; whatever you find enjoyment in, because that person will like it too and you two can break the ice by talking about it. It's very rare to meet a good partner in a bar or on Tinder, because the main goal in those situation is to have sex; which means you'll be harshly judged by your appearance and performance rather than the good person you are.
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Yeah I could prolly worded that better in the post. I want sex really bad, but that's not the ONLY objective here.
I totes didn't have you down as an intimidating-looking guy... I hadn't even been sure if you were a guy or a girl...
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Really? That's kinda surprising based off how much I talk about sex, I figured you woulda figured out. Appearance isn't to relavant on iin so that's more understandable.
Get an intimidating woman or someone who wants to feel protected by an intimidating guy I guess?
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Hasn't worked to well. Also those type of women are rare and actually less attractive to me.
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There are a few, just difficult to find. Well you don’t actually search, u just talk to those u wouldn’t normally talk to
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Yeah there aren't many but I do know a few. I might check them out we'll see. And the girls that would literally go with anyone are usually who I end up with. You get what you get and you don't have a fit I guess.
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If ur searching long term have someone that is a leader figure of a sports club or something, they don’t get intimidated so easily and are very forward. A strong figure doesn’t care as much about others opinions, so maybe she won’t care about ur habits, but still needs someone to care for her once in a while
But yeah try with the others too
I mean u also meet the best people when u stop searching for em and try something new in ur life