How to make someone fancy you?

Okay so.
Day 1- we both match and he says hey, what's someone like you doing single? Fussy?.. I reply.
Day 2 - he replies and asks for my snapchat. We add each other I wait for him to say something. He says hey and we ask each other a few questions, he stops replying. I send a general snap to my whole list about 7 hours later he says 'you're so beautiful it's crazy'
We end up talking about each other's accents and he says 'phone call?' To which I reply send a video instead.
Day 3 - I send a general snap to my whole list and he replies 'morning beautiful' I send a video later on and he does the same back and we talk some more, me sending the video first. He says 'phone call ?' Again as I say how much I like his voice. And I say tomorrow will be better (I wasn't ready) but the next day he never asked for my number or anything...
Day 4- no message from him so I send a general snap and he replies.. just to the snap. He said in the first couple of days he wants to get to know me etc, would love to date me etc. He stops replying and later on I send two snaps of myself he replies a lot later on and I don't open the message til the next day. It reads 'you're stunning, like you are seriously hot!!'
Maybe instead of sending general snaps I should've just gone hey.? I just get so nervous and difficult but that's how I am when I fancy someone. He's a goofball like me. I want him!
But I'm terrible at this game. What should I do?

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  • MangoTango

    Drug this guy with a hefty dose of oxytocin, and he will fall madly in love with YOU. Don't you know about psychopharmacology yet????

    Anyhoo, this person you fancy is male and has already indicated that he thinks you are hot. That's really all it takes. It's all hormones and visual cues really. What you say doesn't really matter. It's in the eye, at first anyways.

    Goofy is good :-) Fun. Have fun.

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    • Zorak

      Oxytocin is the love chemical released by the body. I think it is what causes the butterflies feeling. Lol.

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  • S12207

    He might have been afraid to ask to call again after being basically rejected the first two times he asked. I agree if he says he thinks you're hot and has been contacting you go for it! A friend of mine told me he sometimes likes a woman being shy, he related it to "the forbidden fruit" lol ask him this time if you can call!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Yeah, it's not cool that you don't wanna talk on the phone with him. I can't blame him if he's lost interest in you.

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    • I do I'm just kinda nervous well a lot nervous being a shy girl....

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      • Kevinevan

        Then just tell him that. It's not like it wouldn't come up later.

        I'd have lost interest In you after all that and I am lonely as fuck. I won't tolerate games tho and thats what you're doing.

        If you like him send him a personal message and explain your situation. E.G."Im not ready yet can we just pm for a while before we talk on the phone."

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      • RoseIsabella

        Well, nervous is not an excuse. You have to feel the fear, and do it anyway.

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      • MangoTango

        Chemicals, lol. If he said what you said above, he likes you. Just go with it.

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