Is there some reason why you can't do the cooking and cleaning? What I mean is, would you only be interested in a relationship with a guy who can cook and clean by himself and wouldn't expect you to do it?
Fair enough, some women don't believe in being housewives, and that's fine. I'm sort of the opposite. My SO brings home the bacon, and I cook the bacon. I'm sort of old fashioned that way. Its not that men shouldn't learn how to cook, clean, and do the basics by themselves, but I think its cool when a man supports his lady financially and a lady supports her man by running a household. To each their own though, don't change for anyone. How old are you? If you're in your twenties I'm sure any guy you date who's atleast your age will know how to cook and clean, etc. Maybe casually bring it up in conversation. Like, "I just love cooking pasta dishes. What do you usually cook?"
Thanks. I'm 30 and earn more than guys my own age. I don't plan on quitting my job so pretty much expect that my future partner would domestically contribute as much as I would...
Absolutely nothing wrong with that, but beware that some guys might find that rather intimidating. Some guys like having the feeling that their lady relies on them somehow, but there's nothing wrong with being independent :)
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Is there some reason why you can't do the cooking and cleaning? What I mean is, would you only be interested in a relationship with a guy who can cook and clean by himself and wouldn't expect you to do it?
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I believe in equality. And I am not interested in being a mother and training a guy in his 30s what I believe to be the basics of life.
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Fair enough, some women don't believe in being housewives, and that's fine. I'm sort of the opposite. My SO brings home the bacon, and I cook the bacon. I'm sort of old fashioned that way. Its not that men shouldn't learn how to cook, clean, and do the basics by themselves, but I think its cool when a man supports his lady financially and a lady supports her man by running a household. To each their own though, don't change for anyone. How old are you? If you're in your twenties I'm sure any guy you date who's atleast your age will know how to cook and clean, etc. Maybe casually bring it up in conversation. Like, "I just love cooking pasta dishes. What do you usually cook?"
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Thanks. I'm 30 and earn more than guys my own age. I don't plan on quitting my job so pretty much expect that my future partner would domestically contribute as much as I would...
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Absolutely nothing wrong with that, but beware that some guys might find that rather intimidating. Some guys like having the feeling that their lady relies on them somehow, but there's nothing wrong with being independent :)
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Thanks for that. I want someone to share experiences with :)