How to deal with this creep?

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Back in Middle School, a friend of a friend took a fondness to me. He seemed a little strange, but we quickly clicked and bonded fast. I won't go in to detail, but, in an incident in which he molested me; I never spoke to him since.

However, now I have to see him everyday on the way home on the bus. We chatted for a while, and he apologised for what he'd done.

Yet now this guy is really getting on my nerves. He's turning in to one of those attention seeking emos too! He told me how he was planning on getting a nose ring, and I jokingly said if he did I'd have to beat him up. His reply? A wink and: "I deserve to be beaten up."

I'm really starting to lose my patience with this guy! He acts like I have some sort of violence fetish! Not only that; but he often snatches my phone and refuses to give it back until he has called some random person on my contacts list and pretend to be me!

Please give me ideas on what to do with the thing before I put him down.

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  • ........
    7 years ago | pl

    Threaten him by saying your going to the police to tell them that he molested you and further more tell him your going to tell the police he stalking you on the school bus.

    You gotta put a scare into him, unless your okay with him
    being a creep to you which your aware is totally wrong I'm
    not judgemental on peoples sexual preference but that guy
    is wrong in so many ways.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago | pl

    Distance yourself from toxic ppl.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago | pl

    Sounds like you may have a stalker; however, yelling at him to stop will only worsen the situation. The best you can do is remove yourself from this routine, and hope for the best.

    Start getting off at a different bus stop nearby your house, and take an alternate (and safe) route home while walking. If not, have a family member/trusted friend with a car come pick you up. If you don't/refuse to break the routine for whatever reason and keep talking to him, his behavior will just escalate. Eventually, he'll think you like him and start walking you home, insisting to carry your bags even though you said no, becoming subtly forceful in what he says or does, and more.

    I know some women don't want to hurt a guy's feelings or like the attention they're getting, but when it comes to creepy behavior like waiting for your bus everyday and more, it's best to put a stop to that quick.

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  • mrweird
    7 years ago | pl

    punch the guy AND tell his parents.

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  • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#1I
    7 years ago | pl

    If you're stories true you aren't old enough to be on this site but my advice is "live and learn" there's not much else you can do...

    (think this nigger deserved it?)

    http://m.liveleak.com/view?i=6a2_1391106608

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  • Dreamsao
    7 years ago | pl

    I agree with others. You gotta put the fear in him. Threaten him with police, telling his parents and whatever else you can think of. Have your parents or family pick you up from now on to discourage him from trying anything else.

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