How to cross that line..

I'm in love with someone who treats me so badly and .. who seems to hate me.. but.. he doesn't say he hates me, he says he loves me but he hurts me so bad.. yet i cant seem to see my life with out him.. If he tries to leave i cry and beg him to stay.. I'm not afraid of being alone... i dont want anyone else but him.. how do i cross that line to say i have had enough and is this feeling of longing for him to always be here normal?

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  • Britton

    Sounds like you don't spend enough time in the kitchen... ;)

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    • Ray85

      Sounds like you need a life thr guy. :/

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      • Britton

        Sounds like you need a sense of humor....har har

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        • Ray85

          lmao sounds like you need to get more of a life then :> and stop stalking me D:

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          • Britton

            Stalking you?! Lol how am I stalking you? And why the eff would I? I have a wonderfully adorable girl....I don't need to stalk anybody...but I guess if that boosts your self esteem, then by all means think what you will!

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            • Ray85

              lmao get lost and go play with your bf then :o why are you still talking to me D: Go away i said D: lmao

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  • cdawg

    you need to listen TO ME

    TALK TO HIM WITHOUT SECERets
    are you 100% sure that he hates you rot eh things you do?

    he probably seem s mad cuz he doesnt agree but loves you ive been that guy before if you REALLY love him and dont want him to go, you wont loose him even if he says no i bet you can get him back lady infact i bet hes wraped around your little pinky

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  • Ray85

    ty for that..

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  • kit-kat-bar

    Then, when he tries to call you or text you (he may even not) don't respond, grab some friends that will be there for you, Don't succumb to calling or texting him!! If you get the urge, have a go-to outlet like a cigarette, or a favorite song, or a picture that reminds you of a different memory. Write your feelings in a journal, go to the gym and check out all the guys, just dont' talk to them cause they might be douchebags and you don't need to be reminded of that. Go swimming, whatever you do, do not have any contact with him, the next thing you know, one day has gone by, two days, three days, four, a week, two weeks. When he pops up, revert back to the beginning steps. Trust me, he will get over you, so who is to say that you don't deserve to get over him!

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  • kit-kat-bar

    Just take him to a restaurant and say hey I need to talk, "I don't want to see you anymore, I decided that I felt that I needed you, but the truth is that I need someone who truly loves me and begs for me to stay. I now realize that I am a weak person and I thank you for putting up with me for so long. Since this is really hard for me, I would really appreciate if you help me by being nice to me while I let you go. I feel like you hate me, and to be honest I don't know why I stay with you. Good bye" Now, don't let him talk! Not a word, don't even think about eating the food that you just ordered! Just get up and walk away!! Don't look back, don't notice his reaction, just stick to your guns. Don't wonder about what he's gonna do, don't let him chase you. If he chases you, just say I gotta go, I don't feel good, you can eat my food. DONE!! Clean break and then freking move on with your life already!!!!

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  • cabubblestoo

    Does is he verbally mean to you, because if so they some what condition you to respond the way you are responding. You need to get help weather through family or a counseler at school; just make sure that it is someone you trust.

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  • combatgal856

    time apart is what you need. Block him out of your lofe completly, he's number-delete it, throw away anything that reminds you of him.

    It takes time to get over someone, but once you meet other people you will be laughing about how silly you were stayin wit him

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  • almostunreadable

    Now you act as a slave to your emotions. He is not entitled to love you.

    Please don't become heartless bitch to others when this ends. You'll think you've learned your lesson but will only become unrighteous to others.

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  • krud12

    well u cud try a trick.. im a guy... so mens philosophy is v try 2 avoid things which are easily available... i think he s takin u 4 granted ... try 2 avoidin him 4 a time.... c his reaction... does he try 2 get around u or not... if nt.. try smeone btr..danh him... c f he gets jealous...n bst of luck...

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    • Ray85

      TY very much Krude12

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  • theRealDeal

    Been there! I think we've all been with someone that treated us like shit until we realize we deserve better. Unfortunately, some never do. You just need to get over him by getting under someone else, a good man that will treat you like a woman should be. Also, were creatures of habit. Break the habit of treating him so good, I don't sound like he's worth it!

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  • I am the troll hunter and I will eat all of your dicks!

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