He's in love with you. That should have been apparent since the time he started texting you every morning. I mean, I have good friends, but if they texted me just to say good morning, I'd know what's going on. So while you might have thought it to be innocent, from his perspective you've been leading him on for a year.
I don't know how far this "falling out" went, but have you told him straight and clear you're not romantically interested? He needs to understand you don't share his feelings. Even if it hurts both of you. Those things have to be adressed so you can both move on with your lifes.
And if he still doesen't accept it it's time to block him.
Damn, it's brutal just to write this, I can't imagine how it must be for you.
"but if they texted me just to say good morning, I'd know what's going on."
That's ridiculous. Over the years I have texted female friends a good morning and I wasn't in love with them. I agree that when someone does it everyday for 2 weeks there's certainly something up. But when you get told how much a morning text brightens someone's day, you don't really need an ulterior motive to do it.
How should I deal with my friend?
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He's in love with you. That should have been apparent since the time he started texting you every morning. I mean, I have good friends, but if they texted me just to say good morning, I'd know what's going on. So while you might have thought it to be innocent, from his perspective you've been leading him on for a year.
I don't know how far this "falling out" went, but have you told him straight and clear you're not romantically interested? He needs to understand you don't share his feelings. Even if it hurts both of you. Those things have to be adressed so you can both move on with your lifes.
And if he still doesen't accept it it's time to block him.
Damn, it's brutal just to write this, I can't imagine how it must be for you.
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"but if they texted me just to say good morning, I'd know what's going on."
That's ridiculous. Over the years I have texted female friends a good morning and I wasn't in love with them. I agree that when someone does it everyday for 2 weeks there's certainly something up. But when you get told how much a morning text brightens someone's day, you don't really need an ulterior motive to do it.
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Maybe it's a cultural thing.
It seemed strange to me. But you're probably right.