i argue with my boyfriend like 3x a week. I use it as a learning experience. We go through what makes us angry, (we use a calm voice and level-head) and then we figure out a solution to the problem. This gives a chance for both of us to get out what we need to get out, figure out ways that were going to work on it, then we find a resolution and then move on.. sometimes it gets crazy and we hang up on each other lol other times its calm and we get through it. Bottom line, you're not perfect. You're going to argue/fight with your significant other. Its the way you decide to work through it and hang in there is going to be the end result. If you're easy to give up, then it wasnt worth fighting for in the beginning. If you decide you will work through it no matter how long it takes, then you're on the right path, cuz no1 is perfect and everyone has problems and flaws. you have to look at some1 for the good, bad, and the ugly. thats when you know you can stand them. True love is patient, kind and it prevails all.. ;)
How often do you fight with your significant other?
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i argue with my boyfriend like 3x a week. I use it as a learning experience. We go through what makes us angry, (we use a calm voice and level-head) and then we figure out a solution to the problem. This gives a chance for both of us to get out what we need to get out, figure out ways that were going to work on it, then we find a resolution and then move on.. sometimes it gets crazy and we hang up on each other lol other times its calm and we get through it. Bottom line, you're not perfect. You're going to argue/fight with your significant other. Its the way you decide to work through it and hang in there is going to be the end result. If you're easy to give up, then it wasnt worth fighting for in the beginning. If you decide you will work through it no matter how long it takes, then you're on the right path, cuz no1 is perfect and everyone has problems and flaws. you have to look at some1 for the good, bad, and the ugly. thats when you know you can stand them. True love is patient, kind and it prevails all.. ;)