I'd say I have fought with my husband about 6 times max in 28 years - and I have always been in the right! Either him speeding on his motorbike or drinking and then driving.
It is nonsense to think you MUST fight!
You are supposed to be with the person who makes you happy - not someone who's just there to be abused by you or for you to abuse.
I've never understood why people fight.
If it's trivial eg. socks on the floor, I think about it until the next day before I say anything. By then I've usually forgotten it!
My sister moans and fights constantly, she ridicules me for thinking before arguing. However, she's the one who's had cancer, whose husband and children were so deeply unhappy in that rotten home, that they moved out at the very first opportunity. It may make you feel better - but everyone around you feels rotten. If you resort to insults, you can't take your toxic words back either!
How often do you fight with your significant other?
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I'd say I have fought with my husband about 6 times max in 28 years - and I have always been in the right! Either him speeding on his motorbike or drinking and then driving.
It is nonsense to think you MUST fight!
You are supposed to be with the person who makes you happy - not someone who's just there to be abused by you or for you to abuse.
I've never understood why people fight.
If it's trivial eg. socks on the floor, I think about it until the next day before I say anything. By then I've usually forgotten it!
My sister moans and fights constantly, she ridicules me for thinking before arguing. However, she's the one who's had cancer, whose husband and children were so deeply unhappy in that rotten home, that they moved out at the very first opportunity. It may make you feel better - but everyone around you feels rotten. If you resort to insults, you can't take your toxic words back either!