It seems like the word 'deformity' got a reaction out of IIN. Thing about attraction is that it's purely superficial and it's instant, and it's based on very primal urges. This is different than love, this is hip-to-waist ratio, symmetrical face, straight teeth and so on. At the very basic level it's a measure of health for mating. But it's the summation of a thousand things: you can definitely still be attractive with a lazy eye.
What you should do is not to worry about what you can't change. You say you're a man but the tone of your text doesn't sound like one. Embrace your masculinity—which by the way, doesn't give a shit where your eye is looking. Women can smell weakness in a man like nothing else, so don't see your eyes as a weakness and they won't either.
How much less attractive is someone because of a cross-eye?
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It seems like the word 'deformity' got a reaction out of IIN. Thing about attraction is that it's purely superficial and it's instant, and it's based on very primal urges. This is different than love, this is hip-to-waist ratio, symmetrical face, straight teeth and so on. At the very basic level it's a measure of health for mating. But it's the summation of a thousand things: you can definitely still be attractive with a lazy eye.
What you should do is not to worry about what you can't change. You say you're a man but the tone of your text doesn't sound like one. Embrace your masculinity—which by the way, doesn't give a shit where your eye is looking. Women can smell weakness in a man like nothing else, so don't see your eyes as a weakness and they won't either.
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Hmm think I´ll take this advice, think this will help me, thanks!