I see your point. I'm still suffering in my situation, because my boyfriend doesn't seem to be sexually attracted by me. It is very frustrating to me, because I have the painful impression that I may not be desirable or I don't know. I mean, he seems to have sexual desires for me and enjoy everytime we're doing it, but he has never told me even once that he would like to make me love.. Even if he craved for me the first months of relationship. I am always the one that make the first step, insists on making love while he doesn't care to do it or not. He knows everything about that, but he doesn't change and probably never will. That's why I made this post in order to know if sex is a real big thing in a relationship.
Doubt that he isn't sexually attracted to you. Personally I have felt less sexually attracted at POINTS to the girl I was dating. It is more important that both of you are happy. You can't expect him to figure out everything in your head.
Tell him point blank that he has to initiate. If he doesn't well you're probably in trouble. This situation can improve it has to be worked on actively though. Relationships can survive without sex but is 100000% better with it working. Don't put words in his mouth though ask him.
How much do you think sex is important in a relationship ?
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33% Important.
For me, I like to feel desired, to be appreciated sexually. Without passion, the relationship becomes a purely platonic one.
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I see your point. I'm still suffering in my situation, because my boyfriend doesn't seem to be sexually attracted by me. It is very frustrating to me, because I have the painful impression that I may not be desirable or I don't know. I mean, he seems to have sexual desires for me and enjoy everytime we're doing it, but he has never told me even once that he would like to make me love.. Even if he craved for me the first months of relationship. I am always the one that make the first step, insists on making love while he doesn't care to do it or not. He knows everything about that, but he doesn't change and probably never will. That's why I made this post in order to know if sex is a real big thing in a relationship.
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Just hold out on sex for a while, I'll bet you anything he'll want want what he can't have and come begging for it.
Doubt that he isn't sexually attracted to you. Personally I have felt less sexually attracted at POINTS to the girl I was dating. It is more important that both of you are happy. You can't expect him to figure out everything in your head.
Tell him point blank that he has to initiate. If he doesn't well you're probably in trouble. This situation can improve it has to be worked on actively though. Relationships can survive without sex but is 100000% better with it working. Don't put words in his mouth though ask him.
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