I'm male, not gay and I find the notion of only being able to love one person at a time rediculous!
Sure if you are a slave to society's stigma's then yeah I can understand how one 'can' only love one person or better imagine to only love one.
How many people stay with one person all their life? Now say you at least love two people after eachother then you still love MORE THAN ONE person. Maybe not at the same time, but that is not so different.
Soms people just don't supress their feelings. Some people don't have to do what other people say what should be done.
So yeah it is normal, not exclusive to gays and I've always been honest with my partner. I just ask her if it is ok to go on a date with them. That always worked for me.
(Just to add: I think jumping to the conclusion that it is a gay thing kind of indicates in what degree people are slaves of a society's stigma's.)
How many relationships are truely monogamous?
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I'm male, not gay and I find the notion of only being able to love one person at a time rediculous!
Sure if you are a slave to society's stigma's then yeah I can understand how one 'can' only love one person or better imagine to only love one.
How many people stay with one person all their life? Now say you at least love two people after eachother then you still love MORE THAN ONE person. Maybe not at the same time, but that is not so different.
Soms people just don't supress their feelings. Some people don't have to do what other people say what should be done.
So yeah it is normal, not exclusive to gays and I've always been honest with my partner. I just ask her if it is ok to go on a date with them. That always worked for me.
(Just to add: I think jumping to the conclusion that it is a gay thing kind of indicates in what degree people are slaves of a society's stigma's.)