I don't understand the urge to want to have sex with people, especially strangers, simply based on physical attractiveness. I've never had a problem with monogamy on the level of having some sort of fling or anything. Sometimes people fall in love with others while being in a relationship, but I think that's different than what you are talking about. You love your current partner, but still have the urge to have meaningless sex with others. To me, that's not normal but I am not a gay male. However, I know several gay men and some of them have the same problem as you. I don't want to endorse the negative stereotype than gay men aren't monogamous. You need to have self control and don't give in to lust. It's not fair to your partner if you cheat on him, and will only hurt you both.
I think that if you are lucky enough to have one person to love and love you back, then that should be enough, it's selfish to want more.
Yeah well I'm also male but straight and I think there are two groups...the one who love only one at the same time and rlly just the only one... and the other group who love their partner but are also attracted to others... Yeah I belong to the 2nd group is all I can say... I'm not only attracted to one but I ignore the feelings to others cuz I don't want to be attracted to another girl just because her look... but I definitely am... It's kinda annoying cuz I wanna be troy to my gf's but it's hard 4 me... I think there are many males thinking this way, aren't there?
How many relationships are truely monogamous?
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I don't understand the urge to want to have sex with people, especially strangers, simply based on physical attractiveness. I've never had a problem with monogamy on the level of having some sort of fling or anything. Sometimes people fall in love with others while being in a relationship, but I think that's different than what you are talking about. You love your current partner, but still have the urge to have meaningless sex with others. To me, that's not normal but I am not a gay male. However, I know several gay men and some of them have the same problem as you. I don't want to endorse the negative stereotype than gay men aren't monogamous. You need to have self control and don't give in to lust. It's not fair to your partner if you cheat on him, and will only hurt you both.
I think that if you are lucky enough to have one person to love and love you back, then that should be enough, it's selfish to want more.
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Yeah well I'm also male but straight and I think there are two groups...the one who love only one at the same time and rlly just the only one... and the other group who love their partner but are also attracted to others... Yeah I belong to the 2nd group is all I can say... I'm not only attracted to one but I ignore the feelings to others cuz I don't want to be attracted to another girl just because her look... but I definitely am... It's kinda annoying cuz I wanna be troy to my gf's but it's hard 4 me... I think there are many males thinking this way, aren't there?