This is a tough question to answer with a generic answer since each person is different and has different levels of what they would tolerate and not tolerate in a relationship.
I would say it would be very difficult to forgive and move on for myself and any other self respecting person. If you dont have much self respect then mayby it would be easy to look the other way as in your head you have convinced yourself you "deserve" treatment like that. Perhaps you are convinced you arent "good in bed" so its logical for the other person to seek elsewhere to satisfy that need. Sounds stupid but many people probably find themselves in similar situations like this, or else so in love with one particular person they put up with abusive behavior for fear of losing that person.
Kids bring a whole other variable to the equation as well, staying together for kids is a very noble undertaking and something I would consider doing if I found myself in that situation. But if I wasnt married or was married without kids and my partner cheated on me it would be over. I just wouldnt be able to be intimate anymore, I would constantly think / picture my partner with the person they cheated on me with.
How many people would forgive a cheater
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This is a tough question to answer with a generic answer since each person is different and has different levels of what they would tolerate and not tolerate in a relationship.
I would say it would be very difficult to forgive and move on for myself and any other self respecting person. If you dont have much self respect then mayby it would be easy to look the other way as in your head you have convinced yourself you "deserve" treatment like that. Perhaps you are convinced you arent "good in bed" so its logical for the other person to seek elsewhere to satisfy that need. Sounds stupid but many people probably find themselves in similar situations like this, or else so in love with one particular person they put up with abusive behavior for fear of losing that person.
Kids bring a whole other variable to the equation as well, staying together for kids is a very noble undertaking and something I would consider doing if I found myself in that situation. But if I wasnt married or was married without kids and my partner cheated on me it would be over. I just wouldnt be able to be intimate anymore, I would constantly think / picture my partner with the person they cheated on me with.