While I agree its tough to label "once a cheater, always a cheater". It most certainly would be close to being done with the person being cheated on, or at least should be.
That person would deserve another chance but they should get it with another person. If they made a mistake and realized it good for them, dont make it again with another person.
I wouldnt be able to forgive though. I dont blame people for mistakes, but you should always have to pay for them.
Agree. People make mistakes. Still, as you said, I myself honestly have no clue what I'd do. Hopefully I won't HAVE to be in that situation anyways. But, thigns could be different.
If I catch him sucking some hooker, or if he came to me and told me he cheated on me and he's sorry for what he did.
Agree. If I would really love them and can tell that they are really hurt for what they did, I would still be with them. If they are caught a second time, they are for sure a goner is what I say. You were the good person in the first place to give them a second chance anyways.
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This is one of those things where you think you know what you'd do, but when the time comes, you realize it's not so simple.
I also don't believe "always a cheater". Someone can make a mistake, realize it and be sorry for it and never want to do it again.
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While I agree its tough to label "once a cheater, always a cheater". It most certainly would be close to being done with the person being cheated on, or at least should be.
That person would deserve another chance but they should get it with another person. If they made a mistake and realized it good for them, dont make it again with another person.
I wouldnt be able to forgive though. I dont blame people for mistakes, but you should always have to pay for them.
Agree. People make mistakes. Still, as you said, I myself honestly have no clue what I'd do. Hopefully I won't HAVE to be in that situation anyways. But, thigns could be different.
If I catch him sucking some hooker, or if he came to me and told me he cheated on me and he's sorry for what he did.
Hm. Tough thinking...
Agree. If I would really love them and can tell that they are really hurt for what they did, I would still be with them. If they are caught a second time, they are for sure a goner is what I say. You were the good person in the first place to give them a second chance anyways.
Totally agree.