How many friends is it acceptable for your partner to have?
Friends that they regularly hang out with.
| wife: 0 | 4 | |
| wife: 1-2 | 0 | |
| wife: 3-5 | 1 | |
| wife: 6+ | 13 | |
| husband: 0 | 0 | |
| husband: 1-2 | 0 | |
| husband:3-5 | 1 | |
| husband:6+ | 11 |
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Doesnormalmatter
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RoseIsabella
It's not about how many friends a significant other has, or doesn't have, but how that significant other treats one, and one's friends. There needs a be a balance.
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SwickDinging
Why would you try to impose limits on the number of friends your partner has?
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perfectxsilence
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BohemianSpirit
Well, my Soulmate and I only have one another and I am perfectly happy with that. He is my lover, partner, Soulmate and best friend all wrapped in one sweet package! We honestly feel like we don't need friends because we have each other and I feel like you only need one (or two; my Mom is also my best friend!) true friend to be happy and fulfilled. And IMHO, having two friends who are (kinda) family is perfect for me! I couldn't be happier. ♥
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transferdinand
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Jimbo24
Gender matters more than number as far as I'm concerned. I'm okay with a wife having ten female friends, but zero male friends, because I wouldn't want her screwing behind my back. Mind you, sex itself isn't the biggest problem; it's the cheating. I could pimp her out myself on some occasions, but it's not the same when you're the one making it it happen and having control over the situation.
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LloydAsher
I can agree to that sociopathic logic. If she has a Male friend I'll try to befriend him as well and make it abundantly sure that he knows I will kill him if he sleeps with my wife.
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Jimbo24
That's sure to make the friendship not worth it anymore! I don't why he'd befriend some married bitch in the first place. Simplest and most cost-effective solution is just cut her off from male friends entirely. Problem solved. No suspicions, no 40 years for premeditated murder over some ho wife, and none of that BS.
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LloydAsher
Eh. I imagine my wife will be a social butterfly on the outside. Not going to cage that. That will only increase the chance for sleeping with someone else if she lothes me.
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Jimbo24
Why would you marry a social butterfly? That's just asking for trouble. I'm not saying go full Taliban, but restricting her friends and acquaintances to only females sounds like a good compromise to me: she gets to chat and hang out with new people, all the while you have the peace of mind that those people don't have dicks. And if she really insists on having male friends, like couldn't live without them, make an exception for homosexuals.
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LloydAsher
Mate any person who wants to marry me will be a catch I will keep. Restricting her friends is a bullshit thing to do. Plus micromanaging a wife like that takes the fun out of even having a wife. If you are that insecure about having one dont have one it's a choice.
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Ellenna
If there'd been an option to vote "As many as they want" that's what I would've voted for
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PleaseTalkToMe
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GaelicPotato
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LloydAsher
Good to see IIN is filled with non sociopaths when it comes to their SO friends.
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[Old Memory]
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Ok, well you only live once for between 70 to 80 years if you're lucky, then you are worm food. Do whatever the fuck you want and don't let anyone stand in your way.
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