1) Your being stupid for hanging out with a group of boys, and thinking its happy dandy to be 'girly' around them. They will get a whiff of your womanly vagina, and if you already haven't been, you will be downgraded from 'friend' to 'object I must obtain before the rest of the pack'. It's a really awkward scenario a lot of girls (and guys) fall into when hanging out with a group of the opposite sex. But that's just based on my own experiences and observing groups of friends and what not.
2) He's taking advantage of you. Period point blank. You definitely don't realize it, and he might not be consciously doing it. You are his girlfriend. He's just not willing to acknowledge it. It's all a game, my friend.
I hate it when people say they can't do something. You can walk away from this, you just don't want to. You REALLY don't want to. You don't have to honestly. But, how long are you willing to draw this out? Eventually you will demand to be his 'official girl". He will either oblige or decline. Your relationship will either continue or end. I think that you are not demanding to be his girlfriend yet, because you are really afraid of the real possibility that he will reject you. Sorry, but love or not, you should have never slept with him AFTER the first time you suggested you make it official. In essence, what you were letting him learn is: it's okay, don't take what I want seriously, because I don't take it seriously myself.
how long should I wait? I'm in love with him and I cant walk away IIN
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I can't believe I actually read that.
Well listen. Here are the basics:
1) Your being stupid for hanging out with a group of boys, and thinking its happy dandy to be 'girly' around them. They will get a whiff of your womanly vagina, and if you already haven't been, you will be downgraded from 'friend' to 'object I must obtain before the rest of the pack'. It's a really awkward scenario a lot of girls (and guys) fall into when hanging out with a group of the opposite sex. But that's just based on my own experiences and observing groups of friends and what not.
2) He's taking advantage of you. Period point blank. You definitely don't realize it, and he might not be consciously doing it. You are his girlfriend. He's just not willing to acknowledge it. It's all a game, my friend.
I hate it when people say they can't do something. You can walk away from this, you just don't want to. You REALLY don't want to. You don't have to honestly. But, how long are you willing to draw this out? Eventually you will demand to be his 'official girl". He will either oblige or decline. Your relationship will either continue or end. I think that you are not demanding to be his girlfriend yet, because you are really afraid of the real possibility that he will reject you. Sorry, but love or not, you should have never slept with him AFTER the first time you suggested you make it official. In essence, what you were letting him learn is: it's okay, don't take what I want seriously, because I don't take it seriously myself.
Pardon the lengthiness.