How long is too long to crush?

So I have liked a boy for three years on and off now and I don't know what to do! I have tried to have other relationships and they just aren't the same. I don't know if he will ever like me but I just can't shake the light feeling when I'm around him. What should I do? am i normal?

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Based on 161 votes (139 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • darkmoonrose

    I've had/have a crush on my manager for 3 years... Brought it to his attention one night... And has been one of the greatest relationships I've ever Been in, take the plunge! They can only say yes or no, mind you they can say no in many different ways, but when it c

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    Jump his bones! March forward! Press the Gates!

    Be assertive and gregarious let him know what you want from him now or else it will stay an awkward friendship.

    -simple as that-

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  • snufflebunny

    YES! I feel the same way about a guy in my school. I try to tell myself that I dont like him, but I cant shake the feelings that I have toward him.

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  • apsel90275

    ugh....i hate crushes. (i have had one for over three years as well---and im STILL trying to figure her out)
    i mean, why do they have to be so confusing?
    I don't know though, i think you should go for it, cuz otherwide itll just keep eatin away at you and I know and hate the feeling as well. but hey, its easier said than done, right?

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  • coloradoskies

    this is certainly normal. Once you have a guy you are reallly attracted to, it seems that everyone else doesnt add up. Hint to him that you have feelings for him and see how reacts. Better to try it out then wondering what if.

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  • darkmoonrose

    Comes down to it, all they said is no

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  • jas07

    Do it girl go for what u want or you'll regret it someday always follow your heart

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  • kasiee

    dont worry about that i have a crush on this boy in my school that i like see everydaay and really do like him its hard to like someone and not no if they like you back but i saay go for it if you like him then saay something what have you got to lose at least you no how he will feel and if he dont feel the same waay then move on but you never no he might just like you. :)

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  • inlovewithlove1991

    ur probably in love w/ him

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  • anakas

    This is absolutely abuse, and honestly I am surprised you even have to ask. You need to do something about this, it is wrong. You don't deserve it!

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