Gotta tell you, young women are stupid, in that we go for the hot ones, and you being so good and stable may come across boring. You can start wearing allot of black to start [seriously, it's psychological]. As immature as it sounds, 'bad boys' and tattoos are a turn on too. A quality woman will expect good manners- young women see bad behavior as hot... Alternately, you could go for a young single mom [who is looking for a GOOD man, stability, security, decent dad for a little boy especially], or if you are not looking for marriage, hit the bars and act arrogant. Goes back to the playgrounds in grade school- you chase the girls 'till you get tired, then walk away. For some unknown reason, they start to chase you- remember? I could be 50 yrs old and weigh 300 lbs and still get anyone- it's knowing how to play the games. Unfortunately, at your age, game playing is prevalent... at 40, we're tired of it... [P.S. I do know a couple of sweet, pretty young ladies that are NOT into game playing and would be good to start something with. Would LOVE to have had one for my DIL...]
I've studied this idea in depth, I do appreciate the response, however, and I could be completely wrong here, but I don't want to pretend to be something I'm not in order to attract someone. Maybe I do come off as boring... At least from a dating stance (once someone knows me I know i'd never be described that way) I have so many other qualities I feel would be negated if I tried to put on a "bad boy" persona. And then I've started something with someone based on a character that isn't me. /bleh
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Gotta tell you, young women are stupid, in that we go for the hot ones, and you being so good and stable may come across boring. You can start wearing allot of black to start [seriously, it's psychological]. As immature as it sounds, 'bad boys' and tattoos are a turn on too. A quality woman will expect good manners- young women see bad behavior as hot... Alternately, you could go for a young single mom [who is looking for a GOOD man, stability, security, decent dad for a little boy especially], or if you are not looking for marriage, hit the bars and act arrogant. Goes back to the playgrounds in grade school- you chase the girls 'till you get tired, then walk away. For some unknown reason, they start to chase you- remember? I could be 50 yrs old and weigh 300 lbs and still get anyone- it's knowing how to play the games. Unfortunately, at your age, game playing is prevalent... at 40, we're tired of it... [P.S. I do know a couple of sweet, pretty young ladies that are NOT into game playing and would be good to start something with. Would LOVE to have had one for my DIL...]
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I've studied this idea in depth, I do appreciate the response, however, and I could be completely wrong here, but I don't want to pretend to be something I'm not in order to attract someone. Maybe I do come off as boring... At least from a dating stance (once someone knows me I know i'd never be described that way) I have so many other qualities I feel would be negated if I tried to put on a "bad boy" persona. And then I've started something with someone based on a character that isn't me. /bleh