How long is normal to wait..

..to have sex with someone? for example, after how many weeks of seeing someone?
as if think i may have rushed into this, oops :P

Is It Normal?
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  • I try not to have sex until at least after the second date. Not always successful, but I try.

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  • Depends how you view sex. Obviously you should not do it until you are ready, but what do you think about when you think about sex? Is it really important to you? If so then you might be more wary about it. Personally I do not see sex as the ultimate expression of a romantic relationship, and thus I would not draw out the sexual tension for a long period of time. 2-3 months is long enough for me.

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  • I always have sex on the first night as I am not in a relationship so I have to grab it while I can ( it's my body and I can use it and abuse it in anyway I please) It is really a personal choice and whatever the individual feels comfortable with, and on another note as for men claiming they lose respect for a women after a one night stand, it is strange that they do not complain at the time. Just wait until you are ready as it is your body so therefore your choice xx

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  • the answer is after 3rd date. But of course the girl might want it before 3rd date, or maybe longer than that.! Well...when you r hungry mate, u just have to wait until the food is finally cooked!

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  • When both are comfortable. I've waited until we've been going out for two months and I also had sex with a girl I got set up with on a blind date when I got to her place and before we went out. Everyone is different.

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  • When u get really turned on!

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  • Just do it when you think it's the right time. Depends when you feel you guys are ready

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  • I never wait much but none of them lost respect. They really fall in love with me haha.

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  • what i think is normal:
    if you are a guy - the second you see an opportunity
    if you are a girl - hold out till you feel it's right/ the person it right and so one.

    too soon or too late isn't good.

    in some way it's a game, and depending one how it's played sets what kind of relation shit it will end up to be and how long it lasts.

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  • Sex=love so have sex when you love her/him

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  • How long should you wait to eat? What's normal? When your slightly hungry or starving on all fours? Probably neither... Somewhere in between two extremes. When you can wait no longer, then maybe it's time. I am not an advocate of waiting til marriage for sex. Just an empty ideal. I like doing what works, and sex before marriage gives you more insight to each others personalities, some of which would save you from marrying an incompatible person. Then divorce would be the only option

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  • The only true answer is no less the date 3 and not before you feel it's right.
    As a man, I can tell you that many womens rush into sex too fast, only to regret it later.

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  • When you love them.

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