How long generally do you think u should wait to get married

how long do you think? generally! me and my bf have been dating for almost a year and it’s pretty serious.. just wonder how long ppl should wait

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  • Friedchiken

    At least a few years imo. I've never been in love so I couldn't say I know what it's like to want to be with somebody for the rest of my life. But keep in mind that a year is nothing in comparison to the rest of your life...

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  • NashamaTheWeird

    Wait AT LEAST until you have been together for a full year to get engaged. After that, you need time to plan the wedding, make arrangements etc.

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  • curious-bunny

    Whenever your ready, I know a couple who got married after there first date, that was 40 years ago and yes there still happily married

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  • Kendal123

    Wait until you can afford to raise a family. No particular time frame is needed. Ive seen some couples together for 10 years and then they get married once they are financially stable and secure

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  • Tigernormal

    After 18 months as hormones die out and you’ll see if you still love each other.

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  • Pakcmon

    Why get married? What is the purpose of giving away half your stuff when the inevitable happens? Truth is most people break up! Dont risk it!

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  • charli.m

    There's no set amount of time. It's different for everyone.

    How old are you?

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    • 18 almost 19 and he’s 27

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      • charli.m

        Oh jeez.

        If I were you, I'd wait several years. You probably don't have anywhere near the lofe experience to make such a big, life changing, theoretically life long decision.

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  • AntiArchon

    I saw my ex bf's real darkside after 3 years.. I don't believe in marriage but if you really want to, wait 5-10 years.. Most people regret getting married and have to go through all shitty problems just for divorce.

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    • rayb12

      If he had a shitty problem with his darkside why did you not simply buy the man toilet paper

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