How long does it take for a crush to dissburst

first of all i would like to apologize for my bad english!

i realize that crushes take a diffrent amount of time for diffrent people to go away but i'd just like to know how long it takes on average

1-2 months 3
3-4 months 8
5-6 months 3
7-8 months 2
9-10 months 1
about a year 6
1-5 weeks 2
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  • Ellenna

    Your question is too vague to get a meaningful answer: it would depend on the people involved and whether or not the crush is mutual.

    Some crushes fade away, others expand into long lasting love or friendship, so if you're wondering about a crush you're currently experiencing you're just going to have to wait and see.

    If you want it to be over, the best way is to keep busy and focus on other things in your life.

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  • Angelandme

    A crush remains as long as you haven't made up your mind to ask her out or give up on her and move on.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Dissburst, is that like a disrespectful implosion?

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    • Ellenna

      And I'm often accused of being pedantic about spelling on this site! OP apologised for poor english and it only took me a second to work out h/she meant dispersed

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      • kupokupo

        The OP may also have meant disburse if his crush is a whore!

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        • charli.m

          That one doesn't take jokes well. Expect to be obliterated.

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          • kupokupo

            Kinky. It's a good thing I take obliteration well then!

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            • charli.m

              You do indeed, Mr Moogle.

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  • Decorum

    This entirely depends on the individual case. I had a crush on a girl in highschool for 3 years; that's my whole fucken highschool-period! Apart from that I have had, at most, two more crushes, where the other lasted about a year. The best thing to do when having a crush is of course to tell the person, this is probably the fastest and most effective cure.

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