There is no solid rule as to when you can and can't say you love someone and mean it. Some people are really right for eachother, and fall inlove almost instantly. Others take time for their feelings to grow, and take a long time to say they love someone. I knew my boyfriend for just under a year before we started dating. He was always the easiest person to talk to and be around, and always cheered me up and just improved me mood in general whenever we had a conversation. He is the first and only person I've ever developed real feelings for. On our first date, we spoke about anything and everything and instantly clicked and we knew we were inlove. So I guess, love at first date? If that makes sense. Other people swear they fell inlove with their partner the moment they laid eyes on them and I won't doubt that because it irritates the hell out of me when people assume people can't fall inlove after a first date. What else would you call the will to devote your entire life to somebody? That's love, man. Some people are so bitter and so against love and relationships, probably because they lack that very aspect in their lives, that they belittle and degrade those who fall inlove easily and are vulnerable to love. Don't listen to people who say things like "if you think you love somebody after the first time you saw them, its not love" because that, is bullshit. Nobody in the world can tell you how or when you should fall inlove. It happens in its own time and its different for everyone.
how long does it take before you can truly say you love someone?
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There is no solid rule as to when you can and can't say you love someone and mean it. Some people are really right for eachother, and fall inlove almost instantly. Others take time for their feelings to grow, and take a long time to say they love someone. I knew my boyfriend for just under a year before we started dating. He was always the easiest person to talk to and be around, and always cheered me up and just improved me mood in general whenever we had a conversation. He is the first and only person I've ever developed real feelings for. On our first date, we spoke about anything and everything and instantly clicked and we knew we were inlove. So I guess, love at first date? If that makes sense. Other people swear they fell inlove with their partner the moment they laid eyes on them and I won't doubt that because it irritates the hell out of me when people assume people can't fall inlove after a first date. What else would you call the will to devote your entire life to somebody? That's love, man. Some people are so bitter and so against love and relationships, probably because they lack that very aspect in their lives, that they belittle and degrade those who fall inlove easily and are vulnerable to love. Don't listen to people who say things like "if you think you love somebody after the first time you saw them, its not love" because that, is bullshit. Nobody in the world can tell you how or when you should fall inlove. It happens in its own time and its different for everyone.