In high school I was always told to retain my virginity. My friends weren't virgins, but that's because they lost it to someone they loved so it was okay. I had been with my current boyfriend for about six months and ALL my friends told me it was still too early to lose it. I had a very, very high libido and from the moment I started dating this guy I REALLY wanted to sleep with him. We had a connection that made me feel extremely sexually attracted to him, which I had never felt before. I assumed I was asexual, because I never even thought of sex with other people. Once I met him it was like BAM, okay I want HIM! We were best friends at first and didn't start dating until a year after knowing each other.
I felt so pressured to not "mess up" and be labelled a slut by my peers, but a few days before prom I was like...you know what? FUCK IT! Or...fuck HIM, rather, hehe. I was SO tired of the bullshit I was being fed and I realized that my virginity was MINE to lose and not anyone else's. If my friends had a problem then tough luck, buttercup. So, I went over to his house that night and was like okay, let's do this. I felt so wonderful afterward, like a weight had been lifted off of my shoulders. I was finally free from the mundane bullshit my friends were spewing and then I embraced my sexuality. It was the best decision I've ever made and I wouldn't change it at all.
How it feels after losing virginity?
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In high school I was always told to retain my virginity. My friends weren't virgins, but that's because they lost it to someone they loved so it was okay. I had been with my current boyfriend for about six months and ALL my friends told me it was still too early to lose it. I had a very, very high libido and from the moment I started dating this guy I REALLY wanted to sleep with him. We had a connection that made me feel extremely sexually attracted to him, which I had never felt before. I assumed I was asexual, because I never even thought of sex with other people. Once I met him it was like BAM, okay I want HIM! We were best friends at first and didn't start dating until a year after knowing each other.
I felt so pressured to not "mess up" and be labelled a slut by my peers, but a few days before prom I was like...you know what? FUCK IT! Or...fuck HIM, rather, hehe. I was SO tired of the bullshit I was being fed and I realized that my virginity was MINE to lose and not anyone else's. If my friends had a problem then tough luck, buttercup. So, I went over to his house that night and was like okay, let's do this. I felt so wonderful afterward, like a weight had been lifted off of my shoulders. I was finally free from the mundane bullshit my friends were spewing and then I embraced my sexuality. It was the best decision I've ever made and I wouldn't change it at all.