2. I agree with the rest. If it gets very serious she will know. I would never hide something like this from someone who really cared about me on a deep level like that. Exactly when is tough to decide by for sure by that point.
One of the main reasons I don't wanna wait too long is in case it's a deal breaker for her. Its unlikely it would be, but if it is I wanna know. Because if she finds out 10 years later on accident I'd be fucked. Nobody wants that.
Honestly i dont see it the same way as some.
Its not cheating anymore that getting boob job/ plastic surgery is cheating. We all have goals and if thats what you want.
My concern would be side effects or harming your heath. But im sure you know/ consider that right?
If my wife got a boob job without talking to me first I would have a problem with that.
I would never get really close to someone who didn't approve of me using steroids.
Yes I have considered the health risks and yes there are some. Steirods when reasonable doses in healthy populations are really not as bad for you as most people think. The only noticable side effects my first cycle were acne got worse and so did my anxiety a little bit but that might have been placebo.
I can't tell you how long is too long to wait. Usually within a year you will know if it's long term or not. The rest is just a matter of how quickly things proceed.
A strong mf.....lol. What does strong mean to you? And by whose standards? Never will I understand that need for chronic growth on a physical level. But I don't need to. I just hope your idea of "safe" is well researched and not made by those trying to sell you something. Or made by insecurity.
Yes I know nobody can say exactly I just want some folks to weigh in as I'm considering this.
Like I said on other threads, I have told several casual partners of mine and nobody has cared so far. But still it's very possible that if they were more serious with me they would care but idk.
You don't need to understand that part. Most people don't and that's fine. It's just my passion to get bigger and stronger and I have been focused on it for a long time. Big and strong compared to who, is compared to fellow lifters. I want to show up at the gym and be the biggest and strongest fucking dude. I also have competed in powerlifting before and probably will again, but not a lot, mainly because of steriods. Anyways, its complicated and you probably don't care. This post wasn't called "do you agree with steriods?" for a reason. Anyways, thanks for weighing in :)
Lol. No. I get that you don't care if I agree. And honestly, I don't have a strong opinion on the subject as it is really far outside my norm. I fucking hate the gym. But I try to be open minded about such things so it's interesting to learn more about the drive itself.
How important is it to tell my partners about this?
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1. Because I wanna be a big, strong mf
2. I agree with the rest. If it gets very serious she will know. I would never hide something like this from someone who really cared about me on a deep level like that. Exactly when is tough to decide by for sure by that point.
One of the main reasons I don't wanna wait too long is in case it's a deal breaker for her. Its unlikely it would be, but if it is I wanna know. Because if she finds out 10 years later on accident I'd be fucked. Nobody wants that.
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Honestly i dont see it the same way as some.
Its not cheating anymore that getting boob job/ plastic surgery is cheating. We all have goals and if thats what you want.
My concern would be side effects or harming your heath. But im sure you know/ consider that right?
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If my wife got a boob job without talking to me first I would have a problem with that.
I would never get really close to someone who didn't approve of me using steroids.
Yes I have considered the health risks and yes there are some. Steirods when reasonable doses in healthy populations are really not as bad for you as most people think. The only noticable side effects my first cycle were acne got worse and so did my anxiety a little bit but that might have been placebo.
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I have to take synthetic hormones for a condition so im not too judgy. Without them id be an unbalanced bitch with hot flashes .
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If you have a condition that's a total different story. Still if it effects me I'd probably want to at least know about something like that but idk.
I can't tell you how long is too long to wait. Usually within a year you will know if it's long term or not. The rest is just a matter of how quickly things proceed.
A strong mf.....lol. What does strong mean to you? And by whose standards? Never will I understand that need for chronic growth on a physical level. But I don't need to. I just hope your idea of "safe" is well researched and not made by those trying to sell you something. Or made by insecurity.
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Yes I know nobody can say exactly I just want some folks to weigh in as I'm considering this.
Like I said on other threads, I have told several casual partners of mine and nobody has cared so far. But still it's very possible that if they were more serious with me they would care but idk.
You don't need to understand that part. Most people don't and that's fine. It's just my passion to get bigger and stronger and I have been focused on it for a long time. Big and strong compared to who, is compared to fellow lifters. I want to show up at the gym and be the biggest and strongest fucking dude. I also have competed in powerlifting before and probably will again, but not a lot, mainly because of steriods. Anyways, its complicated and you probably don't care. This post wasn't called "do you agree with steriods?" for a reason. Anyways, thanks for weighing in :)
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Lol. No. I get that you don't care if I agree. And honestly, I don't have a strong opinion on the subject as it is really far outside my norm. I fucking hate the gym. But I try to be open minded about such things so it's interesting to learn more about the drive itself.