I´ve been made fun of for my style for the past ... hmm ... nine years.
If it has tought me anything it is that people are stupid and really not more than animals for judging people based on something as trivial as their style.
Mind you I am not a fan of emo´s myself but I would never tell one that it´s their own fault that they get bullied.
EVERYONE can get bullied, people will always find a reason to throw you down.
And people will always find a reason to throw themselves under the bus. It works both ways.
If you insist on your own style, then unless you are a total moron, you know you are making things tough on yourself, right? You are creating the situation you are complaining about, don't you see that?
You are unlikely to get that perfect job if you have 30 piercings and a few tats on your face and you know it when you apply. It sucks, but that is the way real life is, plain and simple.
You guys can't blame me for all this shit, I'm probably the least judgmental old guy you'll ever meet, but I'm also not going to pull any punches when I give my opinion.
I do not care how you dress or act. But I understand the repercussions of being different. I was a flower child in SF before the word hippie was coined. I understand exactly what you and the dumbelle are going through; I've been there. And I can sympathize. But I am not going to bullshit you either.
The dumbelle is every bit as negative, cruel and judgmental towards me as she complains everyone is toward her, so I have no respect for her at all. She is worse than those she complains about because she is two faced, whereas those she complains about are at least true to their beliefs.
She quite obviously can dish it out with the best of them, but just as obviously, she can't take it. That makes her a fake and a phony; one deserving of no respect or consideration.
I understand your point now. And when I get angry it is not at you because I am fully aware that everything you said in this reply is true but I get angry with society and the structure.
To me, it´s perfectly normal to form an opinon of a person based of their appearance ( I do that all the time) but I would never treat someone differently because of my own narrow-minded assumptions.
This, however, does not apply to everyone else. People older than me who should know better acts way more shitty than I did when I was like fifteen -_-
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I´ve been made fun of for my style for the past ... hmm ... nine years.
If it has tought me anything it is that people are stupid and really not more than animals for judging people based on something as trivial as their style.
Mind you I am not a fan of emo´s myself but I would never tell one that it´s their own fault that they get bullied.
EVERYONE can get bullied, people will always find a reason to throw you down.
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And people will always find a reason to throw themselves under the bus. It works both ways.
If you insist on your own style, then unless you are a total moron, you know you are making things tough on yourself, right? You are creating the situation you are complaining about, don't you see that?
You are unlikely to get that perfect job if you have 30 piercings and a few tats on your face and you know it when you apply. It sucks, but that is the way real life is, plain and simple.
You guys can't blame me for all this shit, I'm probably the least judgmental old guy you'll ever meet, but I'm also not going to pull any punches when I give my opinion.
I do not care how you dress or act. But I understand the repercussions of being different. I was a flower child in SF before the word hippie was coined. I understand exactly what you and the dumbelle are going through; I've been there. And I can sympathize. But I am not going to bullshit you either.
The dumbelle is every bit as negative, cruel and judgmental towards me as she complains everyone is toward her, so I have no respect for her at all. She is worse than those she complains about because she is two faced, whereas those she complains about are at least true to their beliefs.
She quite obviously can dish it out with the best of them, but just as obviously, she can't take it. That makes her a fake and a phony; one deserving of no respect or consideration.
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I understand your point now. And when I get angry it is not at you because I am fully aware that everything you said in this reply is true but I get angry with society and the structure.
To me, it´s perfectly normal to form an opinon of a person based of their appearance ( I do that all the time) but I would never treat someone differently because of my own narrow-minded assumptions.
This, however, does not apply to everyone else. People older than me who should know better acts way more shitty than I did when I was like fifteen -_-