He does have children and his advice is worth considering. The way you dress is a representation of who you are and people will treat you accordingly.
I am not condoning the "blame the victim" mentality but it's a thought worth considering before you walk out into public and wonder why on earth people are taking you for an overly emotional fuck-face.
It has children? Poor them. Poor "wife". If his children/child were bullied in this same manner and his response is, "Stop dressing that way, you want attention, you have no friends... It's your fault, just change for the bullies. Please."
Sounds pretty on point; emotionally vacant, self absorbed, absent parents.
If a kid has their own train of thoughts, personality, tastes (music, clothing, sexuality) they should not be told to conform and abide by the pressures to change who they are -- no, do not give in to a bully or their judgmental nonsense. They're angry self-serving people, who like to show off. Plenty of my gf's in school would use this sheep-like attitude and bully the odd girls. It took one moment in PE class, for me to leave "the pack" and approach this bullied girl (who always chose to draw, cowering)
I went up to her and asked to see her pictures, complimented her and told her to jog the next "mile" with me/us. After I began to walk back to my friends, suddenly 5 random girls -- and some of my "clique" walked over to her...one by one...to see her artwork as well. I laughed after, because all it takes sometimes is one person showing genuine interest and finding something interesting in someone; suddenly everyone followed after me. Some were patronizing her, some thought they needed to get in on this "good deed" as well.
Ultimately, mothers and fathers online? The last people who should be telling a bullied child "how to be" to get along, if that's their stance.
People can dress however they want to express their personalities. It's not to be summed up as, "well she asked for it". Do you all wear white shirts, overcoats and blue jeans/ slacks and think you're better? Or just trying really hard to conform and hopefully be accepted in public? I never understood why people actually judge others based on sole appearance..clothing wise, hair color. It has nothing to do with you.
She is bullied by her peers? Peers are dick-heads until you leave HS.
Well, you really do live up to your screen name,it seems.What makes you think bullying is all shiny new to your generation and that your problems are only of your generation?
Get a grip. Even in your wildest dreams of individuality, YOU ARE NOT! It's all been done before and it will all happen again.
You are just a spoiled little child trying to be different and finding the mainstream won't accept you if you want to play different. What bothers me about little shits like you who try so fucking hard to be different is why you are so desperate for the acceptance and the approval of those you are trying to be different from. You act so superior and holier than everybody else because you stand by your principles, but then come on sites like this crying your eyes out because nobody respects you dedication.
Wake up; nobody cares.
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He does have children and his advice is worth considering. The way you dress is a representation of who you are and people will treat you accordingly.
I am not condoning the "blame the victim" mentality but it's a thought worth considering before you walk out into public and wonder why on earth people are taking you for an overly emotional fuck-face.
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It has children? Poor them. Poor "wife". If his children/child were bullied in this same manner and his response is, "Stop dressing that way, you want attention, you have no friends... It's your fault, just change for the bullies. Please."
Sounds pretty on point; emotionally vacant, self absorbed, absent parents.
If a kid has their own train of thoughts, personality, tastes (music, clothing, sexuality) they should not be told to conform and abide by the pressures to change who they are -- no, do not give in to a bully or their judgmental nonsense. They're angry self-serving people, who like to show off. Plenty of my gf's in school would use this sheep-like attitude and bully the odd girls. It took one moment in PE class, for me to leave "the pack" and approach this bullied girl (who always chose to draw, cowering)
I went up to her and asked to see her pictures, complimented her and told her to jog the next "mile" with me/us. After I began to walk back to my friends, suddenly 5 random girls -- and some of my "clique" walked over to her...one by one...to see her artwork as well. I laughed after, because all it takes sometimes is one person showing genuine interest and finding something interesting in someone; suddenly everyone followed after me. Some were patronizing her, some thought they needed to get in on this "good deed" as well.
Ultimately, mothers and fathers online? The last people who should be telling a bullied child "how to be" to get along, if that's their stance.
People can dress however they want to express their personalities. It's not to be summed up as, "well she asked for it". Do you all wear white shirts, overcoats and blue jeans/ slacks and think you're better? Or just trying really hard to conform and hopefully be accepted in public? I never understood why people actually judge others based on sole appearance..clothing wise, hair color. It has nothing to do with you.
She is bullied by her peers? Peers are dick-heads until you leave HS.
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Well, you really do live up to your screen name,it seems.What makes you think bullying is all shiny new to your generation and that your problems are only of your generation?
Get a grip. Even in your wildest dreams of individuality, YOU ARE NOT! It's all been done before and it will all happen again.
You are just a spoiled little child trying to be different and finding the mainstream won't accept you if you want to play different. What bothers me about little shits like you who try so fucking hard to be different is why you are so desperate for the acceptance and the approval of those you are trying to be different from. You act so superior and holier than everybody else because you stand by your principles, but then come on sites like this crying your eyes out because nobody respects you dedication.
Wake up; nobody cares.