How i get bullied

It gets better. High school sucks my friend.

High school sucks, period. One thing that you have to understand is that a lot of these bullies may have equal or worse problems than you.

I cut myself, had chronic depression and so on in High School. My home life was disturbing to say the least and it pushed me almost to the point of disgust to hear "emos" whine about how their parents don't accept them when I knew that I'd provably go home to a Mother who is liable to kick my ass, call the cops and CPS on me when I didn't so much as touch her then possibly throw me in 72 hour lockup just because she could. I still managed to put on a happy face and go to school only to listen to people who are comparatively privileged above my means bitch about problems that I'd have given anything to have.

I'm not trying to guilt trip you or tell you that your problems are insignificant. I didn't bully or taunt those individuals because, for all I know, they were dealing with way worse than they let on. My only point here is that you need to consider that some of your bullies may be in similar or worse positions than you. I know a few of mine admitted to this after it was all said and done and high school was far behind us. Knowing this may make them easier to deal with in the long run.

Honestly in this world people can be monsters, especially in high school. The best you can do is to just not let it get to you. Like seriously, as long as you're happy with yourself then that's all that matters. Wear whatever makes you happy, not what you're pressured into. Ultimately though, it does get better. But in the meantime, all I can say is keep your head up, and do what makes you happy. In the words of anti-hero above "Fuck em, be you."

I'm not justifying the fact that those kids bully you, but wearing your emotions on the outside IS looking for attention. I used to be VERY much into the whole emo thing, I know how it works. You think your teenage issues are so much worse than everyone else's real life problems and you want everyone to know how dark and disturbed and troubled you are by wearing black clothes, heavy make up, dark hair that hangs in the face, trust me. There's nothing you can tell me about being an emo kid that I don't already know.

I used to be called names too, and it pissed me off real bad. However, around the age of 17 I grew the fuck up and realised my "problems" were pathetic. I was not depressed, I was a teenager. I did not have issues, I had emotions. Have you actually been diagnosed with depression by a psychiatrist? Cause if not, please don't come on here and try to tell everyone you have an excuse to dress like you're looking for attention because you actually suffer from depression. People throw that word around way too easily and as someone who had a father (emphasis on had) that suffered from depression, it insults me.
There's nothing wrong with having a unique style, and chances are when its not a style based on showing off how terrible your life is, you won't get made fun of it and if you do, it wouldn't bother you anyway. I always liked the whole metal scene, and when I grew up I figured out how to actually express my style without looking like homo in the process. I got tattoos, piercings, and I still wear kick ass mostly black clothes. I still have super long black hair and wear eyeliner, I just do it because its how my style is done, not because I'm trying to advertise my emotions to the world. I don't expect you'll even understand what I'm trying to tell you because when you're young enough to refer to yourself as emo, you're not really capable of comprehending anything logical, but try to drop the emo act if you would like to have a fairly plesent high school experience.

Imagine yourself...in a Middle Eastern country or a third world country.
I'm not trying to degrade your problems and your pains, but most of us here have a lot of "first world" problems and it is good to step back every now and then for some perspective.

Fuck em, be you.

Welcome to the War of Life! Be a Warrior! If You should die in Battle (Which most of Us Humans do eventually) Then I bid You the Klingon salute "Q'APLA" = Success! Rage On!

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Idk if it was just my high school, but if some one was bullying somebody, not only would they have their asses kicked, they'd prolly be shunned. I remember throwing some kids head into a locker for kicking the crutch out from under this guy who had polio as a kid.

I know exactly what you're going through, in terms of having no friends and being picked on, on a daily basis. I went thru that from 6th to 10th grade pretty much. It sucks. It was so bad that I would fake being sick so I wouldn't have to face the abuse at school, as I didn't feel I could tell my mom about it. I lied to her, I lied to myself. I didn't know myself. I thought I could just be fake about everything. I didn't know myself and that made it worse! Man it really sucks, it's hard even remembering how bad it was! However, now I'm an adult, by the time I was about 24, I grew out of feeling stunted socially. It's as if I was on a different curve, socially than my entire world. Now I've accepted who I am, and I am just sincere and real, and now that I've embraced myself, I've learned that I was probably so different than my peers is because I'm special, not an outcast. I'm an intuitive, not necessarily psychic per se, but I have developed much of my intuitive faculties. I am telepathic, I am just on a different level than other people I know. Now that I'm an adult, I see that I'm special, in a good way. Most people don't understand me, why I need to bond with nature and meditate on my crystals to find enlightenment, or divine wisdom. I've had many unique experiences and synchronicities that guide me. Also, I've learned that having empathy is so important, and love for the world and everybody in general. As a teenager, this may be hard to understand, but just remember karma. Be sincere, don't be fake, don't try to fake your emotions. Be real. In this day and age, being gay is OK, so don't worry about that so much. I don't really know how that plays out in high school nowadays, but at least in your future it's not as bad as it has been in former generations.

Just remember that empathy is intuition. don't ignore it. don't see someone else suffering and justify it by saying you've suffered, now it's their turn. doing this propetuates bad karma and your own misery. Empathy is your intuition trying to guide you to happiness and fortune. Hang it there, it gets better ;)

High school sucks, I was bullied throughout it. Trust me life gets better, there is light at the end of the tunnel :)

I feel you. I've been a goth/metalhead since high school and it was hell. Teenagers are mean and disrespectful, it's all about looks and popularity. You don't have to be part of this mass stupidity and you don't have to suffer for being yourself. I know it is impossible to ignore what they put you through ( I've been told this useless advice too many times ) I'll say the opposite, stand up for yourself. Being aloof and silent won't make them go away. Stay close to your friends and try to be happy with what you have in life. Those years are hard but there is people out there who are open minded and who will love you and accept you.Perhaps you haven't met them yet, which is really sad, but don't lose hope. Life will get better, there will be scars but it is worth going through. ( cheesy advice I know )

Depressed in school lol. I always think people who 'express' themselves through things like piercings and tattoos look ridiculous.

Life is tough...
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