How does one keep guy friends in the friend zone forever ?

Mostly every guy friend I’ve ever had ends up wanting something more than just a friendship. It gets really awkward when I tell them that I don’t feel the same way and just like that, we’re not friends anymore. I don’t know what to do, the only guy friends that I have left are gay. I’ve lost some important people because of this and I don’t know how to prevent it from happening. I don’t lead anyone on, I try my best to treat everyone the same. I don’t cross any boundaries with my actions or words, hell I even started wearing baggy sweatpants and oversized t shirts just to make my appearance less appealing. I really don’t know what else to do

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Comments ( 15 )
  • Mrown

    get a boyfriend, they won't keep getting their hopes up anymore

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    • PleaseTalkToMe

      No get a gf, men are cunts

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  • mauzi

    They don’t seem that important if they would leave you over that. But Pretty much no one can be just friends unless they’re already taken and / or late 20s and older, if you aren’t below average looking. It’s always funny, you can tell when guys are taken when they act like you’re a normal person

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  • brutus

    Say that you have HIV/AIDS.

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    Because guys have dicks.

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    • PleaseTalkToMe

      AMEN

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Just be friends with women and gay men then, easy. Even better befriend a flock of asexuals for a 0% risk of sexual interest.

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  • PleaseTalkToMe

    Cause men think with their dick sweetie, have you not caught onto this yet. Dont matter what the fuck you look like, all they want is to stick that pathetic fugly cock in a hole. Why do u even bother to make guy friends when you know what they want??? I stay well clear of men, I have gay guy friends ONLY. I also stay away from straight women caue they are users in their own way so now I hang with LGBT people. Way better than hetronormative fucks

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    • SkullsNRoses

      How are straight women users if you’re a girl yourself? I’m genuinely curious.

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  • Clunk42

    Those guys sound like crappy friends to leave a friendship just because it doesn't progress into a romance.

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  • litelander8

    I let them flirt with me and never let it go any further. Boys will be boys 🤷🏾‍♀️

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  • TerriAngel

    Mrown nailed it.
    To any guy. If youre not in a relationship.
    your available/looking.

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  • RoseIsabella

    It was a about 19 years, and one month ago that I had to dump my best guy friend.

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  • curious-bunny

    Yea I always mane it clear from the beginning if a guy ain't my type. That seems to help

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    • PleaseTalkToMe

      Oh but a hole is EVERY guys type 😂

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