How do you tell a woman you don't want to date her?

I've tried calmly and politely telling her I don't like her in that way multiple times when she tried asking me out or giving me gifts. I got tired of her persistence, got mad and told her to fuck off, but she's still at it. I only saw her as a friend, but then I ended that after being annoyed by her, yet she still tries. My partner wants to punch her. So how do I get her to go away?

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  • _ItsScience

    Tell her VERY publicly and VERY loudly. Embarrass her.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Sounds like you've got a stalker! Block her number on you're phone and on all social media, then get a restraining order.

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  • Blackstarxd

    Is she still bothering you?

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  • shuggy-chan

    Just do this till she leaves

    https://youtu.be/H4k0A-qPCJo

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  • Priest

    Tell her to get a life.

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  • ailliams

    Ok, as a woman this is what I would want you to do. Don't be rude about it, be matter-of-fact. Tell her straight up that you don't see her like that and have no interest in dating her. Seriously, avoid any personal remarks about her being crazy or obsessive because that's very painful to hear, and we won't forget something like that. If she doesn't get it when you've told her straight up in that way, find a girl and take her out where she is to show that you've moved on. Any woman in her right mind will know that this is a clear sign and will avoid you from thereon out, but if she doesn't, then seriously tell her to go away. Don't give any hints or suggestions that a relationship might be possible in the future. Crap like "I'm not ready for a relationship ~right now~" gives her an open door.

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  • Justmehere

    Have to do it directly and with no question. If the nice guy routine doesn't work, get mean. I had a server woman at the sports bar I go to, really working on me, and I had zero interest. Not a hint. I let her down easy around New Year's Eve, when she cuddled up to me and said "Oh..Who am I going to kiss at midnight?" and I said..I dunno, I'll be home.

    Then maybe 2 months ago, I was there and she was off her shift, so sat next to me for a drink. She asked "If I asked you out, right now, and offered myself to you, what would you say?". At that point, my brain thought..Take care of this now..She's not taking the nice no for an answer.

    I turned to her, at first joking, saying "I try not to shit where I eat", meaning, she works there, I go there, and if things went bad, it would be a tough situation. Then, hit her with the truthful "I'd say no, and, that's the final answer. I'm not interested, ok?". She briefly went off about "skinny women", and I restated..I'm just not interested in you, period. She's arrogant, mean, aggressive..And hiding a lot of pain. I get that. Ran away from an abusive husband, her kid has health issues, and most relationships she has end up bad. She takes it out on people in all the wrong ways. Comes off as the disgusting, angry big chick.. It doesn't work, and I want no part of it.

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  • MR.mr

    threaten to get a restraining order, or better yet actually get one.

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    • Zorak

      I agree with this advice. Sadly...sometimes restraining orders do nothing to ward off crazy.

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  • Jimbo24

    Grab her by the arms forcefully, give her a dead serious stare in the eye, and tell her you don't want her loudly and with a serious and threatening tone.

    If she keeps at it after that: restraining order.

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