1. You find out what you miss about that person being in your life, what you got from that person that makes them so hard to give up (what did this person do to trigger the feelings of want in you - there's al;ways something but finding what is hard)
2. You keep busy. Even though your mind is never on what you're doing and you feel like you are fighting a losing battle. Trust me, when you give in to the thoughts and sit there doing nothing but mulling stuff over you will feel much much worse. Just keeping the body busy does help, even though it doesn't feel like it until you stop.
If you are involved with a control freak maybe you feel lost and need direction to feel OK? Work on taking control and learning about you. It is really hard but after a while you will turn the corner and life will be full of joy again :)
How do you stop missing someone you love?
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Two things:
1. You find out what you miss about that person being in your life, what you got from that person that makes them so hard to give up (what did this person do to trigger the feelings of want in you - there's al;ways something but finding what is hard)
2. You keep busy. Even though your mind is never on what you're doing and you feel like you are fighting a losing battle. Trust me, when you give in to the thoughts and sit there doing nothing but mulling stuff over you will feel much much worse. Just keeping the body busy does help, even though it doesn't feel like it until you stop.
If you are involved with a control freak maybe you feel lost and need direction to feel OK? Work on taking control and learning about you. It is really hard but after a while you will turn the corner and life will be full of joy again :)