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He would drop everything if I needed him.
He trusts me.
He helps me when I ask.
He teaches me new skills.
He listens instead of yells.
He laughs at my jokes and cares about my opinions.
He loves my habits and quarks that would annoy others.
He shops with me even though he hates shopping.
He always includes me in his plans.
He never talks down about me to friends or family.
He appreciates everything I do for him big or small.I could probably go on but I think I got the main point down. It's not about what he buys me or what his body physically does when he's around me. It's about compatibility and the little things.
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Potential signs but holes in it
1: Takes time to text you but can also be doing that with another girl right after he just texted you
2: He buys you stuff without you asking but he can be trying to buy you out
3:Startes into your eyes and smiles so he takes time to not look at ur tits, ass but instead into your eyes, most innocent part you got and right after seeing into you he likes what he sees and smiles with comfort and joy WINNER!Comment Hidden ( show ) -
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keeps trying to do stuff with you-asks you to go to events with you. If you say you're stressed out, he offeres a massage. Or he outright just says so. Alsays telling you how hot you are, etc.
He'l also make fun of your current or former bf to make himself look better. "oh, I'd never cheat on you....I'd always bring you flowers, I'd always pay, I have a car".....so on.
TBH, that crap is creepy. Well, at a young age anyway. After your second divorce, it's cool.
I's like he uses things to get a girl, rather than knowing who he is and haing any kind of personlaity. That important stuff comes with time.
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Yeah it's probably really different for everyone. I wouldn't do either 1 or 2, I'm too afraid I'd look like a stupid mango. 3 is probably what I'd do, and also talk to them more than I usually would. (Also catching a sneaky glimpse down the top when they're not looking.)
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