How do you feel when a man can't get it up for sex?

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Not a problem at all, provided we have mutually enjoyable intimacy. 2
2- It is unattractive, emasculating and/or a big turn-off for me. 2
Things happen; it's okay as long as it doesn't happen often. 9
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1- It makes me feel unattractive or undesired. 4
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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago | pl

    I am happy about it, he is less likely to gay rape me with a limp rod.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Honestly?

    It makes me feel unattractive. I think about the women in his porn movies that get it up and it makes me feel like maybe I'm too flabby or I'm not acting sexy enough or maybe it's because I'm too pale etc.

    I know that it's probably true that sometimes the submarine doesn't always cooperate with the Captain's wishes but knowing that it has full sped to the surface before for some hot porno girl without fail removes the ability to give a fuck from my Fukitol glands.

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    • forkchicken91
      11 years ago

      "The submarine not always cooperating to the captain's wishes" is always the case with these things. When a man can't get it up, it's almost always either a plumbing issue, performance anxiety issue (caused by him wanting to please you, and stressing over it), or porn-induced ED issue. If your man didn't find you jaw-droppingly attractive, he wouldn't be in bed with you.

      Thank you for your honesty though =).

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    a little frustrated.

    it happens sometimes though - sometimes it's just not the right time, or it's just not working.

    what do you do? Just get some rest, drink plenty of fluids (seriously, hydration will help both of you) and try again later.

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  • GingerWaterDemon
    11 years ago

    I think it'd bother me a bit, I may feel a bit self conscious, but I'd know that it wasn't me. If it happened a lot however, I'd get concerned. You know it's way worse on your guy when things like this happen, so making it about you would probably only make the situation worse. Cause then he feel guilty on top of feeling... well, whatever they feel when they can't get it up. Embarrassed?

    It should be noted that if alcohol was involved I'd just laugh it off and wait 'til the next day.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    It hasn't happened to me (yet), but I would start feeling conscious or as if I did something wrong. I would just get up and try my best to excite him. Although it'll still be in the back of my mind.

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